Have fun trick or treating!Be safe!
Watch out for Ghosts and Goblins!
Enjoy your day!
Happy Halloween!!!!!
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Happy Halloween!
Have fun trick or treating!Be safe!
Watch out for Ghosts and Goblins!
Enjoy your day!
Happy Halloween!!!!!
Friday, October 30, 2009
Look Who's Here!
Say hello to my newest niece, Lylah Caroline. Isn't she sweet! (please don't look at me...I only got 3 hours sleep last night!) I spent the morning at the hospital, waiting for her to make her arrival. As you can see, she is a little bitty thing. My sister's section was delayed, so we all sat in the waiting room, worrying about her. I was going to look into Hyper-V backup and Protection while we waited, but my mom forgot her laptop. I can not wait until February and I am able to get my own laptop. Just think. If I had a laptop, I could have posted this picture hours ago.I can not wait to go back to the hospital tomorrow and spend some more time with the new baby.
It's The Big Day
Just wanted to let you all know that I won't be around much today. I am about to head to the hospital...my sister is having her baby this morning. Then it's trick or treat time with Brandi, her BFF, Faith, and Missy and gang.
Say a little prayer that my sister and newest niece or nephew are happy and healthy after delivery. The section is scheduled for 9, and hopefully all my pink thoughts will bring me a niece...not that I wouldn't love a nephew, but we need to even things out a bit. I have 8 nephews and 3 nieces...we need more girls!
Say a little prayer that my sister and newest niece or nephew are happy and healthy after delivery. The section is scheduled for 9, and hopefully all my pink thoughts will bring me a niece...not that I wouldn't love a nephew, but we need to even things out a bit. I have 8 nephews and 3 nieces...we need more girls!
Thursday, October 29, 2009
My "Wedding"
Junior and I have been married for 14 years. As my loyal readers probably already know, I never had a wedding; we were married at the courthouse. There is a huge part of me that is okay with that, because I would have an anxiety attack worrying about standing in front of all those people.
Then there is a little part of me that thinks I missed out on an important occasions in a girls life. My dad never got to give me away, I never had a first dance with my husband (not that I can dance, but still), my mom never got to make the dress we had picked out for me to wear (yes, we were actually planning our wedding but decided to cancel when I found out I was pregnant), and I never got to have a wedding cake. There was no bridal shower or wedding favors. There was no reception afterwords, just coffee and donuts at my mom's house.
I am thinking about having a small ceremony in six years, on our 20th anniversary, to renew our vows. Maybe then I won't feel like I missed out on anything. I have already picked out my wedding favors, too. I wanted something different, because everyone gives out the picture frames and candy covered almonds. I found this beautiful heart wind chime, and I can get them for as low as $3 each. I don't plan on inviting too many people, so I believe these would be perfect. I found them at partease.com. They have an awesome selection of all things party related, so check them out if you are planning a wedding, or any type of get together.
I am going to have to spend the next 6 years convincing my husband that this wind chime is the perfect favor. I want to have the ceremony outside, like we had originally planned, and I think it would be beautiful to hang the chimes all around, and then tell the guests to take one home when the reception is over. The only problem with that is that Junior hates the sounds of the chimes. But, it will be my wedding day, so I am sure I will get what I want.
Can you say diva?
Then there is a little part of me that thinks I missed out on an important occasions in a girls life. My dad never got to give me away, I never had a first dance with my husband (not that I can dance, but still), my mom never got to make the dress we had picked out for me to wear (yes, we were actually planning our wedding but decided to cancel when I found out I was pregnant), and I never got to have a wedding cake. There was no bridal shower or wedding favors. There was no reception afterwords, just coffee and donuts at my mom's house.
I am thinking about having a small ceremony in six years, on our 20th anniversary, to renew our vows. Maybe then I won't feel like I missed out on anything. I have already picked out my wedding favors, too. I wanted something different, because everyone gives out the picture frames and candy covered almonds. I found this beautiful heart wind chime, and I can get them for as low as $3 each. I don't plan on inviting too many people, so I believe these would be perfect. I found them at partease.com. They have an awesome selection of all things party related, so check them out if you are planning a wedding, or any type of get together.I am going to have to spend the next 6 years convincing my husband that this wind chime is the perfect favor. I want to have the ceremony outside, like we had originally planned, and I think it would be beautiful to hang the chimes all around, and then tell the guests to take one home when the reception is over. The only problem with that is that Junior hates the sounds of the chimes. But, it will be my wedding day, so I am sure I will get what I want.
Can you say diva?
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Once Upon A Time
Once upon a time...
...I looked forward to Christmas to see what presents I would get
......now I look forward to seeing the smiles on the faces of the people I give gifts to
Once upon a time...
...I wanted nothing more than to be a mom
......now I am living my dream and loving every second of it
Once upon a time...
...I didn't know how it felt to watch my child hurt
......now I feel my heart break every time they shed a tear
Once upon a time...
...I thought I would need money to be happy
......now I know that I can make my own happiness out of nothing
Once upon a time...
...I believed that my weight defined me
......now I know I am more than a number on the scale
Once upon a time...
...I met a wonderful man who gave me three amazing children
......now I know what unconditional love is
...I looked forward to Christmas to see what presents I would get
......now I look forward to seeing the smiles on the faces of the people I give gifts to
Once upon a time...
...I wanted nothing more than to be a mom
......now I am living my dream and loving every second of it
Once upon a time...
...I didn't know how it felt to watch my child hurt
......now I feel my heart break every time they shed a tear
Once upon a time...
...I thought I would need money to be happy
......now I know that I can make my own happiness out of nothing
Once upon a time...
...I believed that my weight defined me
......now I know I am more than a number on the scale
Once upon a time...
...I met a wonderful man who gave me three amazing children
......now I know what unconditional love is
Buying A New Television
Do you have any idea how hard it is to buy a television these days? What happened to the days when you went into the store, and the only thing you had to worry about was the size of the television you wanted. Now they have flat screens, digital, high definition, and plasma tvs.
We need a new television, and plan on buying one after we move. Buying one now is pointless, because we would just have to move it in a couple of months. We are going to wait, and do our research so we can make an informed decision, and find the best deal. I know Junior wants something big, and I am not opposed to that. I just think it needs to be in proportion with the room. If our living room is on the small side, I do not want a television that is going to overpower it.
I have been looking at a Panasonic plasma TV at Sam's. I know this brand. We have had televisions made by them in the past, and they have a nice selection of sizes to choose from, so hopefully we will be able to find one that fits perfectly in our new place. I am also impressed with their prices.
But let me ask you. Do you have a plasma tv? If so, what brand is it, and are you happy with it? Would you recommend it to someone else? Let me know which brand you think is the best.
I need some help here.
We need a new television, and plan on buying one after we move. Buying one now is pointless, because we would just have to move it in a couple of months. We are going to wait, and do our research so we can make an informed decision, and find the best deal. I know Junior wants something big, and I am not opposed to that. I just think it needs to be in proportion with the room. If our living room is on the small side, I do not want a television that is going to overpower it.
I have been looking at a Panasonic plasma TV at Sam's. I know this brand. We have had televisions made by them in the past, and they have a nice selection of sizes to choose from, so hopefully we will be able to find one that fits perfectly in our new place. I am also impressed with their prices.
But let me ask you. Do you have a plasma tv? If so, what brand is it, and are you happy with it? Would you recommend it to someone else? Let me know which brand you think is the best.
I need some help here.
A New Header And Trick Or Treating
Halloween is only a few days away, and that means it is time to take down my "scary" header up there. I am not sure what I am going to put there. I want something Fallish, maybe Thanksgiving-y, but haven't been able to find anything I like yet. I still have a few more days, so hopefully I will come up with something.
My sister is having her baby Friday morning, and I am so excited. Then Friday afternoon, I am meeting up with Missy and we are taking the little ones trick or treating through a nearby town. I do this with the kids every year, and they love it. The forecast says rain, but i am hoping they are wrong.
We want sunshine!
My sister is having her baby Friday morning, and I am so excited. Then Friday afternoon, I am meeting up with Missy and we are taking the little ones trick or treating through a nearby town. I do this with the kids every year, and they love it. The forecast says rain, but i am hoping they are wrong.
We want sunshine!
It's A Wonderful Life
Who doesn't love being pampered every now and then? I will admit to never, in my whole life, having a professional manicure or pedicure. How sad is that? I think I know what I am going to ask for for Christmas.
I've never had a professional massage, either. Am I missing out? I don't know how I feel about having a stranger rub me down while I am naked, but I think I am willing to give it a try. I mean, it must feel wonderful having your muscles worked into relaxation.
Knowing me, I would probably fall asleep.
From November 23 until December 31, the Hilton Branson Convention Center Hotel is offering their It's A Wonderful Life package, starting at $349 a night. This package includes deluxe, overnight accommodations at the hotel, full breakfast for two, and my favorite thing, a spa treatment for two. I have never been to a spa, and have no idea what to expect, but it sounds heavenly. This package also includes a Branson Landing passport that is loaded with discounts you can use at dozens of shops and restaurants. I'm not a big shopper, but this girl loves to eat.
With the Holidays fast approaching, a stay at the Hilton Promenade at Branson Landing may be just the thing to help me relax. If only I could convince Junior to spend our Christmas money on a trip instead of presents.
Yeah, I don't see that happening. But there's always next year.
I've never had a professional massage, either. Am I missing out? I don't know how I feel about having a stranger rub me down while I am naked, but I think I am willing to give it a try. I mean, it must feel wonderful having your muscles worked into relaxation.
Knowing me, I would probably fall asleep.
From November 23 until December 31, the Hilton Branson Convention Center Hotel is offering their It's A Wonderful Life package, starting at $349 a night. This package includes deluxe, overnight accommodations at the hotel, full breakfast for two, and my favorite thing, a spa treatment for two. I have never been to a spa, and have no idea what to expect, but it sounds heavenly. This package also includes a Branson Landing passport that is loaded with discounts you can use at dozens of shops and restaurants. I'm not a big shopper, but this girl loves to eat.
With the Holidays fast approaching, a stay at the Hilton Promenade at Branson Landing may be just the thing to help me relax. If only I could convince Junior to spend our Christmas money on a trip instead of presents.
Yeah, I don't see that happening. But there's always next year.
My Little Smarty Pants
Yesterday Junior and I had a conference with Brandi's teacher. We sat and listened to how wonderful our daughter is. The the teacher turns serious and asks if Brandi told us about the incident that happened during school that day.
Um, no.
Apparently while I was sitting here doing a post yesterday, she told Junior, but I knew nothing about it. It seems they had a volunteer from the humane society come in and talk about animals.
She had a poodle with her.
Oh, crap.
The teacher said she noticed Brandi tense up a little, and then when it came time to pet the dog, Brandi chose not to. When the dog was let out of the crate, Brandi pulled her feet up on the chair.
It was then that the teacher asked Boo to go out in the hall with her, and when they got out there, she asked Brandi if she was afraid of dogs.
That was all Boo needed, and the tears started. Her teacher told her to go walk around for a little while, go to the bathroom, get a drink of water, and then come back to the class and sit outside in the hall and read. Her teacher felt so bad!
I felt even worse. It never occurred to me that there would be dogs in class, so I never mentioned Brandi's fear. My poor baby was scared to death. Her teacher told her, right in front of Junior and I, that if she ever felt uncomfortable with anything they do in class, to just ask to go to the library, and she would know what it meant. It would be their little code.
How cool is that?
I really like her teacher this year. Oh, and they are also doing testing to check for advanced kids, and her teacher told me there is not a doubt in her mind that Brandi will be placed in the accelerated class next year. She said that it amazes her how quickly Brandi retains information, and how she is always paying attention and wanting to please. This comes as no surprise to me. I know Boo stresses too much about things that a seven year old shouldn't worry about...that's just her personality. I have said it before that I wouldn't be surprised if she gave herself an ulcer before she leaves elementary school.
Anyway, Ryan and Kasi brought home their report cards today. If you are my friend on facebook you already read this, but I am just so flippin' proud of all my monsters. Kasi got 3 A's and 3 B's. One of her A's was in her honors math class, and her average was actually a 100. How cool is that!?! Ryan, who is a C student at best in the past, brought home 4 A's, 1 B and 1 C. He did awesome! I am sooooo proud of all of them!
Let's just hope they can keep it up all year long!
Um, no.
Apparently while I was sitting here doing a post yesterday, she told Junior, but I knew nothing about it. It seems they had a volunteer from the humane society come in and talk about animals.
She had a poodle with her.
Oh, crap.
The teacher said she noticed Brandi tense up a little, and then when it came time to pet the dog, Brandi chose not to. When the dog was let out of the crate, Brandi pulled her feet up on the chair.
It was then that the teacher asked Boo to go out in the hall with her, and when they got out there, she asked Brandi if she was afraid of dogs.
That was all Boo needed, and the tears started. Her teacher told her to go walk around for a little while, go to the bathroom, get a drink of water, and then come back to the class and sit outside in the hall and read. Her teacher felt so bad!
I felt even worse. It never occurred to me that there would be dogs in class, so I never mentioned Brandi's fear. My poor baby was scared to death. Her teacher told her, right in front of Junior and I, that if she ever felt uncomfortable with anything they do in class, to just ask to go to the library, and she would know what it meant. It would be their little code.
How cool is that?
I really like her teacher this year. Oh, and they are also doing testing to check for advanced kids, and her teacher told me there is not a doubt in her mind that Brandi will be placed in the accelerated class next year. She said that it amazes her how quickly Brandi retains information, and how she is always paying attention and wanting to please. This comes as no surprise to me. I know Boo stresses too much about things that a seven year old shouldn't worry about...that's just her personality. I have said it before that I wouldn't be surprised if she gave herself an ulcer before she leaves elementary school.
Anyway, Ryan and Kasi brought home their report cards today. If you are my friend on facebook you already read this, but I am just so flippin' proud of all my monsters. Kasi got 3 A's and 3 B's. One of her A's was in her honors math class, and her average was actually a 100. How cool is that!?! Ryan, who is a C student at best in the past, brought home 4 A's, 1 B and 1 C. He did awesome! I am sooooo proud of all of them!
Let's just hope they can keep it up all year long!
Eliminate Your Cable Bill
I used to be a television junkie. I had my own lineup of shows for every night of the week, and I went crazy if I missed any of my shows. Junior was a little ticked when I talked him into a free trial of HBO and Showtime, because I got addicted to their shows. I mean, who doesn't love Dexter and True Blood? Luckily, in the past year or so, my television obsession has waned, and there are only a few shows that I MUST watch every week.
Junior would be happy if I gave up television altogether, because our cable bill is a little high. This is somewhere that I need to cut back, because there are so many other things I could be spending that money on every month. I know I couldn't go totally without watching some programs, so something like livetv4me.com would be perfect for me, and my family. For a one time fee of $39.95, I can watch 1000's of programs from all over the world on my computer. Or, I could connect my computer to my digital ready television and watch the shows on the big screen. It is an easy program to set up, with just a 3 minute download.
The $39.95 is a one time fee, and there are no monthly payments. This would completely eliminate my cable bill every month. Unfortunately for me, I am locked into my current agreement with my cable company for the next 18 months, and it would cost me a few hundred dollars to turn off my service. But if you are looking to get rid of your cable or satellite bill every month, check out livetv4me.com. This could be the deal you have been looking for.
Junior would be happy if I gave up television altogether, because our cable bill is a little high. This is somewhere that I need to cut back, because there are so many other things I could be spending that money on every month. I know I couldn't go totally without watching some programs, so something like livetv4me.com would be perfect for me, and my family. For a one time fee of $39.95, I can watch 1000's of programs from all over the world on my computer. Or, I could connect my computer to my digital ready television and watch the shows on the big screen. It is an easy program to set up, with just a 3 minute download.
The $39.95 is a one time fee, and there are no monthly payments. This would completely eliminate my cable bill every month. Unfortunately for me, I am locked into my current agreement with my cable company for the next 18 months, and it would cost me a few hundred dollars to turn off my service. But if you are looking to get rid of your cable or satellite bill every month, check out livetv4me.com. This could be the deal you have been looking for.
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Cultivating A Friendship
I am so blessed.
I know this because I have the best friends.
Not only was I lucky enough to find a man who is not only my husband, but my best friend, but in the past year I have been lucky enough to have become friends with an amazing woman and her family.
This woman is like me in so many ways, and then in so many ways we are complete opposites. Like me, she has an awesome sense of humor. (yes, I think I have an awesome sense of humor...it might not come out in my writing, but I have been told a bazillion times that I am one funny chick) She loves her family more than anything in the world, and seriously, has the biggest heart. Like me, she would give you the shirt off her back if you needed it, even if she didn't have another to put on. I know that it would take one phone call, and she would be there for me, no questions asked. (except maybe where we need to bury the body)
Where I am extremely shy, she is beyond outgoing. This woman never met a stranger in her life, and has passed that eagerness to make friends down to her son. (I have seen first hand how her son is accepting of everyone, and I love that...that right there is a sign of great parenting) We both hate talking on the phone, but do it anyway! Which is funny to me, because there are never any of those awkward silences. We always have something to say. She loves her mom as much as I do mine, and I love her mom as much as she loves mine. Weird, right? But it works.
As many times as I have vented to her, I was so happy to have been able to be there to listen to her yesterday, and offer my shoulder.
Now let me tell you the crazy part.
We met through blogging.
That's right. It started with one comment on my blog, which led to the realization that we lived pretty close to one another, and that was that. We met up for the first time at Ryan's birthday party last year, and that was it. She has become one of the closest friends I have ever had, and I love her to pieces. We have plans this weekend to trick or treat together, and I am so excited! I love hanging out with her. I have always loved to laugh, and I laugh so much when we are together.
Missy, I hope if you read this today you are laughing. Or at least smiling. You know I love you, girl!
I know this because I have the best friends.
Not only was I lucky enough to find a man who is not only my husband, but my best friend, but in the past year I have been lucky enough to have become friends with an amazing woman and her family.
This woman is like me in so many ways, and then in so many ways we are complete opposites. Like me, she has an awesome sense of humor. (yes, I think I have an awesome sense of humor...it might not come out in my writing, but I have been told a bazillion times that I am one funny chick) She loves her family more than anything in the world, and seriously, has the biggest heart. Like me, she would give you the shirt off her back if you needed it, even if she didn't have another to put on. I know that it would take one phone call, and she would be there for me, no questions asked. (except maybe where we need to bury the body)Where I am extremely shy, she is beyond outgoing. This woman never met a stranger in her life, and has passed that eagerness to make friends down to her son. (I have seen first hand how her son is accepting of everyone, and I love that...that right there is a sign of great parenting) We both hate talking on the phone, but do it anyway! Which is funny to me, because there are never any of those awkward silences. We always have something to say. She loves her mom as much as I do mine, and I love her mom as much as she loves mine. Weird, right? But it works.
As many times as I have vented to her, I was so happy to have been able to be there to listen to her yesterday, and offer my shoulder.
Now let me tell you the crazy part.
We met through blogging.
That's right. It started with one comment on my blog, which led to the realization that we lived pretty close to one another, and that was that. We met up for the first time at Ryan's birthday party last year, and that was it. She has become one of the closest friends I have ever had, and I love her to pieces. We have plans this weekend to trick or treat together, and I am so excited! I love hanging out with her. I have always loved to laugh, and I laugh so much when we are together.
Missy, I hope if you read this today you are laughing. Or at least smiling. You know I love you, girl!
Race Car Repair Is Ryan's Dream Job
Remember a few days ago I was talking about how Ryan wanted to be a mechanic when he grows up, and that I was afraid he would move away to work at a Los Angeles Auto Repair shop or something? Well, it seems that I have nothing to worry about.
As you know, Junior loves working on cars, and has held several jobs in the past as a mechanic. Recent shoulder and chronic back pain keep him from doing big jobs these days, like head gasket repairs and engine overhauls. But while he worked as a mechanic, he made a lot of friends in that field, and one of those friends is a guy who builds and works on race cars.
One day last week, he stopped at the guys shop and asked if he could bring Ryan up there for a little tour. The guy said absolutely, so that afternoon, Junior and Ryan headed to this guys shop. Junior wanted to take me and the girls, but to be honest, I have no interest in that kind of thing, and neither do the girls. I think when they get a little older and start driving, I want Junior to teach them the basics of car maintenance, so they won't get stuck on the side of the road somewhere and not know what to do. At the very least, they should be able to know how to change a flat tire, whether it be on a Mustang or a Ford Explorer.
Anyway, Ryan had a ball at the shop. The guy showed hims the engines, and then took the car for a spin around the parking lot. I can't remember if Junior said that Ryan got to ride in the car or not, but either way, he came back a happy kid. The guy impressed me by telling Ryan to stay in school, and letting him know which subjects he needs to well in so that he will have the brain for mechanics. Ryan is now more excited than ever to pursue his dreams, and he now knows that he can do it right here at home.
And that makes me a very happy mom.
As you know, Junior loves working on cars, and has held several jobs in the past as a mechanic. Recent shoulder and chronic back pain keep him from doing big jobs these days, like head gasket repairs and engine overhauls. But while he worked as a mechanic, he made a lot of friends in that field, and one of those friends is a guy who builds and works on race cars.
One day last week, he stopped at the guys shop and asked if he could bring Ryan up there for a little tour. The guy said absolutely, so that afternoon, Junior and Ryan headed to this guys shop. Junior wanted to take me and the girls, but to be honest, I have no interest in that kind of thing, and neither do the girls. I think when they get a little older and start driving, I want Junior to teach them the basics of car maintenance, so they won't get stuck on the side of the road somewhere and not know what to do. At the very least, they should be able to know how to change a flat tire, whether it be on a Mustang or a Ford Explorer.
Anyway, Ryan had a ball at the shop. The guy showed hims the engines, and then took the car for a spin around the parking lot. I can't remember if Junior said that Ryan got to ride in the car or not, but either way, he came back a happy kid. The guy impressed me by telling Ryan to stay in school, and letting him know which subjects he needs to well in so that he will have the brain for mechanics. Ryan is now more excited than ever to pursue his dreams, and he now knows that he can do it right here at home.
And that makes me a very happy mom.
My CafeWorld Cafe
Here's a new shot of my cafe. I know you have all been dying to see it! lol! This is why my house is a mess and the laundry never gets done. I am always worried about what I have cooking, and when it will be ready to be served. I think Facebook needs to stop making these games, or my kids are not going to get fed for the next, oh I don't know, few years? lol!
Watching Movies Online
Junior hates going to the movies. If I want to see a movie, I usually just wait until it comes on demand, and then order it through my cable company, kind of like pay per view. I will be honest and admit that in reality, I can not see spending the money it costs to see a movie in the theater. Except for New Moon. I will be there for that with bells on.
But normally, I am too cheap to go to the theater. Some movies I won't even spend the $4.99 on demand to watch it for 24 hours. I would love to be able to watch free movies online like some of my friends do, but I am always afraid that it is illegal. I have heard horror stories about downloading songs illegally, and I just wonder about these movies.
I found a site that says you can watch full movies for free, so I decided to check it out. They had quite a few titles of movies that are in theaters now, so it makes me wonder how they can provide them legally. I clicked on one of the titles, and had to go through a couple of different pages before I was given the option of downloading the movie.
I didn't do it. I know, I know. I'm a chicken. I just get nervous about downloading things, especially when I am not 100% sure it is the right thing to do. If it gave me the option to watch the movie online without downloading anything, I probably would have watched.
Do you think maybe I should suggest that to them?
But normally, I am too cheap to go to the theater. Some movies I won't even spend the $4.99 on demand to watch it for 24 hours. I would love to be able to watch free movies online like some of my friends do, but I am always afraid that it is illegal. I have heard horror stories about downloading songs illegally, and I just wonder about these movies.
I found a site that says you can watch full movies for free, so I decided to check it out. They had quite a few titles of movies that are in theaters now, so it makes me wonder how they can provide them legally. I clicked on one of the titles, and had to go through a couple of different pages before I was given the option of downloading the movie.
I didn't do it. I know, I know. I'm a chicken. I just get nervous about downloading things, especially when I am not 100% sure it is the right thing to do. If it gave me the option to watch the movie online without downloading anything, I probably would have watched.
Do you think maybe I should suggest that to them?
Why? Really, why?
Brandi brought home 2 field trip permission slips. $15 for one, and $10 for the other. She needs the money in a week. One trip is right before Thanksgiving, and the other is the beginning of December.
Kasi brings home a note from chorus that we have to shell out $25 for her dress rental, by the end of November. We just paid $25 for her to attend a workshop and buy a polo shirt with the chorus name on it.
Oh, did I mention that for Brandi's field trips, she needs to wear her school spirit shirt, which I have yet to buy? That's another $15.
My question is, why now? I know the kids get excited about field trips, especially ones that are Christmas themed. But it is getting close to Christmas...I am already stressing about money...and now I have to come up with an extra $65 in a few weeks? That may not sound like a lot of money o some people, but when you live paycheck to paycheck, and there is no extra money at all, it's tough. Thankfully I have some decent money coming in from my paid posts in the next month, or we would be in serious trouble.
Kasi brings home a note from chorus that we have to shell out $25 for her dress rental, by the end of November. We just paid $25 for her to attend a workshop and buy a polo shirt with the chorus name on it.
Oh, did I mention that for Brandi's field trips, she needs to wear her school spirit shirt, which I have yet to buy? That's another $15.
My question is, why now? I know the kids get excited about field trips, especially ones that are Christmas themed. But it is getting close to Christmas...I am already stressing about money...and now I have to come up with an extra $65 in a few weeks? That may not sound like a lot of money o some people, but when you live paycheck to paycheck, and there is no extra money at all, it's tough. Thankfully I have some decent money coming in from my paid posts in the next month, or we would be in serious trouble.
Monday, October 26, 2009
Going To School
My kids are at that age where they have to start thinking about what college they want to go to when they graduate high school. I am trying to gear them towards business schools because I want them to be successful. I want them to make lots of money so that they don't have to live paycheck to paycheck like Junior and I. I want them to be able to afford to pick up and go on vacation where ever they want, whenever they want. I want them to not have to worry about how they are going to pay their bills every week.
I want them to be secure, and happy.
I wish I had finished college. I would have loved to have taken a culinary arts business course. I have recently discovered that I love to cook. I was always a big baker, but now I am enjoying trying new recipes, and using ingredients I am unfamiliar with. I think it has something to do with my obsession with Iron Chef America.
I don't want the kids to go away to college. I would be happy if they stayed close to home. I am sure they will disagree with this, and probably try to go to a College Chicago or something. I know, as a parent, I should encourage them to spread their wings and leave the nest.
I just wish they didn't want to fly so far from home.
I want them to be secure, and happy.
I wish I had finished college. I would have loved to have taken a culinary arts business course. I have recently discovered that I love to cook. I was always a big baker, but now I am enjoying trying new recipes, and using ingredients I am unfamiliar with. I think it has something to do with my obsession with Iron Chef America.
I don't want the kids to go away to college. I would be happy if they stayed close to home. I am sure they will disagree with this, and probably try to go to a College Chicago or something. I know, as a parent, I should encourage them to spread their wings and leave the nest.
I just wish they didn't want to fly so far from home.
Some Days, I Feel Like A Really Bad Parent
Tonight, my dad's church had a Fall festival. There was a hot dog supper, followed by games and a fun kind of trick or treating. The kids had so much fun. Their favorite games was, of course, the cake walk. Ryan won a pecan pie (sorry, I will not eat that...it's too Southern for me, but Junior and Ryan LOVE it) and Kasi won a cinnamon pound cake, that is yum-o. There were all kinds of games for the kids to play, from mini-golf to cupcake decorating. For each game they played, they got a ticket they could turn in at the end for prizes. Their trick or treating was pretty cool, too. We walked through the Sunday School rooms, and in each room we were told a bible story. Now, I grew up going to church, and there are many days I feel really guilty that I don't take my kids to church. I mean, I know all the bible stories. I can still quote bible verses, which amazes Ryan and Kasi. But, my absolute worst mommy moment came tonight, after hearing the story of David and Goliath.
The man playing David finished his story, and we were leaving the room, when Brandi looked at me and asked if the stories we were hearing were real.
Wow.
I told her they were, and then she asked if the bible told stories, or if it was just a bunch of stuff telling people how to be good.
Double wow.
It hurt my heart that my kids don't know these things. I wish I could get Junior to agree to go to church with me. I am going to tell him he doesn't have a choice, because I don't want my kids not knowing about God.
What kind of a Christian am I if I don't teach them about, or lead them to, God?
Down Another Two Pounds
I got on the scale this morning, just out of curiosity. I have been eating normal, and haven't been too stressed lately. I was a little shocked to see I was down another two pounds, bringing my total to 35 pounds lost in the last few months. I am completely stumped as to the reason why.
I know eventually I am going to have to put some effort in to continue to lose weight. I have heard good things about this book called The Science of Weight Loss. This book basically explains how your body works, and what you can do to lose weight, or what you are doing to gain weight. Make sense? I have tried so many times to lose weight, and I have been unsuccessful in the long run. I need to figure out a way to have my body work with me, not against me.
Maybe this book will shed some light on why I am losing weight right now. maybe I am doing something right, but I just don't know it.
I know eventually I am going to have to put some effort in to continue to lose weight. I have heard good things about this book called The Science of Weight Loss. This book basically explains how your body works, and what you can do to lose weight, or what you are doing to gain weight. Make sense? I have tried so many times to lose weight, and I have been unsuccessful in the long run. I need to figure out a way to have my body work with me, not against me.
Maybe this book will shed some light on why I am losing weight right now. maybe I am doing something right, but I just don't know it.
Merry Christmas
I am donating this sign to a woman's auction for Relay for Life that my step sister is a part of. I will also be putting out order forms for custom orders, if anyone wants to buy one of my signs. My step sister will display the name signs I made for her kids, and my dad's wife is going to take the welcome sign I made them years ago. I'm not expecting to sell much, that way I won't be disappointed when I don't.
Sneakers
Every Christmas, my kids get clothes from family. You would think they wouldn't look forward to something like that, but they love it as much as I do. Especially the girls. Ryan like it, but doesn't get excited about it. To him, it is what it is. I guess it's a boy thing.
I was ready to kill him a couple of weeks ago because of another "boy thing" he did. Remember how he dressed up as the Scream guy for his party? Did you happen to notice his shoes in the picture? I'll have to go back and see if you can tell in the picture, but he took a can of black spray paint to his sneakers because he needed black shoes. I could have killed him. Had I known he was going to do that, I would have found some foot locker coupons and went and bought him a pair of black shoes.
The worst part was that he had Junior's permission to do it, so I couldn't really get mad at him. I did, however, want to kill my husband.
I was ready to kill him a couple of weeks ago because of another "boy thing" he did. Remember how he dressed up as the Scream guy for his party? Did you happen to notice his shoes in the picture? I'll have to go back and see if you can tell in the picture, but he took a can of black spray paint to his sneakers because he needed black shoes. I could have killed him. Had I known he was going to do that, I would have found some foot locker coupons and went and bought him a pair of black shoes.
The worst part was that he had Junior's permission to do it, so I couldn't really get mad at him. I did, however, want to kill my husband.
Sunday, October 25, 2009
An Awesome Weekend
I love weekends spent with family.
Yesterday we did the fun day at Junior's work, and then the girls and I had dinner and played games with my mom and Colleen, my sister. While we were at Colleens we video chatted with my sister Tami, and I finally got to see baby Jake, who, by the way, is a cutie!
Then today we took the kids fishing. We all caught something, except Junior, who spent the day making sure Brandi was catching fish. Catfish were biting like crazy, and they were huge, at least to us. The one in the picture was my first fish. I think by the end of the day I had three, one of which I let Brandi reel in. She was so proud of herself landing a big fish.
We have a busy night tomorrow, too. We are going to my dad's church for some Fall fun and games. This weekend is going to be busy, too. We have lots of trick or treating planned. The past few years a local church has had a small carnival on Halloween, and I am hoping they are doing the same this year. I want the kids to ride the rides for a while before it gets dark, and then we are going to do the door to door thing.
Fun!!!
Yesterday we did the fun day at Junior's work, and then the girls and I had dinner and played games with my mom and Colleen, my sister. While we were at Colleens we video chatted with my sister Tami, and I finally got to see baby Jake, who, by the way, is a cutie!
Then today we took the kids fishing. We all caught something, except Junior, who spent the day making sure Brandi was catching fish. Catfish were biting like crazy, and they were huge, at least to us. The one in the picture was my first fish. I think by the end of the day I had three, one of which I let Brandi reel in. She was so proud of herself landing a big fish.We have a busy night tomorrow, too. We are going to my dad's church for some Fall fun and games. This weekend is going to be busy, too. We have lots of trick or treating planned. The past few years a local church has had a small carnival on Halloween, and I am hoping they are doing the same this year. I want the kids to ride the rides for a while before it gets dark, and then we are going to do the door to door thing.
Fun!!!
Saturday, October 24, 2009
Mr. Mechanic
Junior works on cars. This comes in very handy when we need to get a new vehicle. The last car we bought was a Taurus, and we only paid $400 for it. It need some work, but Junior was easily able to figure out what needed to be fixed, and once he replaced the head gasket, the car ran fine. In fact, we drove it for a few years before we decide that we needed something bigger.
I wish we had found another vehicle that we could have afforded to buy straight out, but that wasn't the case with our van. In fact, we are still paying on it. The only good thing was that it was driveable from day one, so Junior didn't have to do any repairs. Knock on wood it will stay that way.
He is finding cars to work on, though. It seems that word has gotten around his work that he will do repairs pretty cheap. There have been times when he has had to refuse a job because of his shoulder, but most times he will gladly help a coworker get their car running smoothly. In fact, he has a Ford Explorer coming on Tuesday so he can change the brakes and look at something else. I wish I could tell you what the thing is he is going to look at, but most of the time when he talks about cars, I don't understand a word that he is saying. Ryan, however, is at an age where he is absorbing everything, and enjoys helping Junior work on cars. Of course, Junior doesn't allow him to actually do the work, but Ryan is always out there, watching and learning. He hopes one day to get a job working on race cars. He may need some experience first, so working at a Los Angeles Auto Repair shop might be something he can consider.
I know whatever he decides, he will enjoy working on cars as much as his father does.
Or at least that is what I am hoping.
I wish we had found another vehicle that we could have afforded to buy straight out, but that wasn't the case with our van. In fact, we are still paying on it. The only good thing was that it was driveable from day one, so Junior didn't have to do any repairs. Knock on wood it will stay that way.
He is finding cars to work on, though. It seems that word has gotten around his work that he will do repairs pretty cheap. There have been times when he has had to refuse a job because of his shoulder, but most times he will gladly help a coworker get their car running smoothly. In fact, he has a Ford Explorer coming on Tuesday so he can change the brakes and look at something else. I wish I could tell you what the thing is he is going to look at, but most of the time when he talks about cars, I don't understand a word that he is saying. Ryan, however, is at an age where he is absorbing everything, and enjoys helping Junior work on cars. Of course, Junior doesn't allow him to actually do the work, but Ryan is always out there, watching and learning. He hopes one day to get a job working on race cars. He may need some experience first, so working at a Los Angeles Auto Repair shop might be something he can consider.
I know whatever he decides, he will enjoy working on cars as much as his father does.
Or at least that is what I am hoping.
Homer's Kids
Junior's store had a kid's thing going on this morning. They had face painting, games, goodie bags, a fire truck, and the smoke house.For those of you who don't know, the smoke house is a trailer the fire department has that shows kids what to do during a fire. They do a little demonstration about what to do if your house catches on fire, and then fill the trailer with smoke and have the kids crawl out the door. It's actually pretty cool.
As you can see in the picture, the kids enjoyed having their faces painted. Brandi got a butterfly, Kasi got a snake, and Ryan got the "rock on" hand symbol. It was definitely a fun morning.
Friday, October 23, 2009
Redoing Ryan's Room
Tony Stewart no longer drives the Home Depot car. This is not really a big deal, except that my son has a collection of all things orange and Tony Stewart, including his bed set. I was so excited when we found it at Walmart, and Junior and I bought it for him for Christmas. Wouldn't you know, a family friend got him the same thing for his birthday in November. This led us back to Walmart, where we exchanged the set for something else.
Now that Tony no longer drives the orange car, Ryan is wanting a new comforter for his bed. Since we plan on moving soon anyway, I have agreed that once we do, he can decorate his room however he wants, within reason. He was online looking for Nba comforters, and found a site called SHOP.com. He called me over to the computer to show me what he found.
This site is pretty neat because it allows you to type in what you are looking for, and it will show different places you can find it. This is a great way to find the best price. The comforter he was looking at is nice, and I am looking forward to ordering it for him. He thinks he's getting it at tax time, but I am thinking about surprising him at Christmas.
Just like most things these days, you can follow SHOP.COM on Facebook and Twitter.
Now that Tony no longer drives the orange car, Ryan is wanting a new comforter for his bed. Since we plan on moving soon anyway, I have agreed that once we do, he can decorate his room however he wants, within reason. He was online looking for Nba comforters, and found a site called SHOP.com. He called me over to the computer to show me what he found.
This site is pretty neat because it allows you to type in what you are looking for, and it will show different places you can find it. This is a great way to find the best price. The comforter he was looking at is nice, and I am looking forward to ordering it for him. He thinks he's getting it at tax time, but I am thinking about surprising him at Christmas.
Just like most things these days, you can follow SHOP.COM on Facebook and Twitter.
I Started Packing
Yup, that's right. This afternoon I packed up three boxes. One was of stuff from my desk that just takes up spce...like old tax papers and kids artwork. Two boxes are of picture frames.
When we moved here, we went from an eight room house with a long hallway to a five room house with a tiny hallway. I had so many pictures I just didn't have room to display. I ended up sticking them in Ryan's closet.
Since the kids were home today, I had Ryan pull down the pictures and I boxed them up. I wanted to get all the boxes out of his closet, but I have no where to put the boxes right now. I'm hoping we can get a storage building in the next couple of weeks. We have a few bills that have lowered our monthly payment, so we should be able to afford the storage fee.
I am getting really excited about moving, even though I have no idea where we are going.
When we moved here, we went from an eight room house with a long hallway to a five room house with a tiny hallway. I had so many pictures I just didn't have room to display. I ended up sticking them in Ryan's closet.
Since the kids were home today, I had Ryan pull down the pictures and I boxed them up. I wanted to get all the boxes out of his closet, but I have no where to put the boxes right now. I'm hoping we can get a storage building in the next couple of weeks. We have a few bills that have lowered our monthly payment, so we should be able to afford the storage fee.
I am getting really excited about moving, even though I have no idea where we are going.
On Demand
Right now, I am listening to the kids watching iCarly. It's the Halloween episode from last year.
This is the third time they are watching it today. Did I mention how much I love days like this? They are home from school, and it is raining. That means they have nothing better to do than veg out and watch television. I have tried getting them to play a game or something, but they just want to chill.
I can't blame them. I can, however, complain about what they are watching. I normally don't mind iCarly, but watching the same thing over and over again can get pretty annoying.
Are you wondering how they are able to do this? It's all thanks to Charter on demand.
Normally, I am a huge fan of on demand. This is how I get to watch most of the movies I do. I am a subscriber to HBO and Showtime, so I can watch a lot of their programs on demand. This works well when I want to rewatch an episode of Dexter or Californication, or when I need my True Blood fix. They also have most of their current movies on demand. This helps feed my James Marsden obsession, by allowing me to watch 27 Dresses and Enchanted whenever I want. Typing that right there just told me where my kids get it from; watching the same things over and over. I do it to.
You can learn more at charter.net/ondemand and see if Charter is available in your area. I have been a loyal customer for years, and have been more than satisfied with their service. You can also get updates and fun extras on Charter’s Facebook page.
Right now, I need to steal the remote from the kids. I need a little 27 Dresses!
This is the third time they are watching it today. Did I mention how much I love days like this? They are home from school, and it is raining. That means they have nothing better to do than veg out and watch television. I have tried getting them to play a game or something, but they just want to chill.
I can't blame them. I can, however, complain about what they are watching. I normally don't mind iCarly, but watching the same thing over and over again can get pretty annoying.
Are you wondering how they are able to do this? It's all thanks to Charter on demand.
Normally, I am a huge fan of on demand. This is how I get to watch most of the movies I do. I am a subscriber to HBO and Showtime, so I can watch a lot of their programs on demand. This works well when I want to rewatch an episode of Dexter or Californication, or when I need my True Blood fix. They also have most of their current movies on demand. This helps feed my James Marsden obsession, by allowing me to watch 27 Dresses and Enchanted whenever I want. Typing that right there just told me where my kids get it from; watching the same things over and over. I do it to.
You can learn more at charter.net/ondemand and see if Charter is available in your area. I have been a loyal customer for years, and have been more than satisfied with their service. You can also get updates and fun extras on Charter’s Facebook page.
Right now, I need to steal the remote from the kids. I need a little 27 Dresses!
It's Okay To Drool
devil's food cake....peanut butter mixed with powdered sugar....chocolate fudge frosting
Trust me when I say this; you could not eat this whole piece. You would go into sugar shock. I don't think I ate even a third of that piece. BUT, the little bit you would eat is like a little slice of happiness.
Well, if you are a peanut butter/chocolate fan like we are.
Trust me when I say this; you could not eat this whole piece. You would go into sugar shock. I don't think I ate even a third of that piece. BUT, the little bit you would eat is like a little slice of happiness.
Well, if you are a peanut butter/chocolate fan like we are.
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Is Nursing For Me?
My mom and sister are both nurses. My sister quit nursing to be a mom, but my mom still works in the nursing field. I have been thinking about going back to school, and I am having a hard time deciding what I want to study. I always thought I wanted to work with kids. Maybe open a day care center or something. Then I think about all the money nurses make, and I lean towards that. I would have to get over my aversion to blood, and I'm not sure I can.
There is a very interesting nurse guide I found that offers new nurse tips. It also has an article about the best places to be a nurse. I can tell you first hand that when my sister was a nurse down here in South Carolina years ago, she was making awesome money. She was working in a nursing home, and I hear that hospitals pay even more.
Now that I think about it, all my sister did was push a drug cart. There was no blood involved in that. I know she had to do regular nursing while she was in school, like learning how to give shots and draw blood, and I am pretty sure I could handle that for a few weeks. I'm just not sure how I would do in the long run.
I mean, I almost threw up looking at Junior's finger yesterday. Maybe I wouldn't make a good nurse.
There is a very interesting nurse guide I found that offers new nurse tips. It also has an article about the best places to be a nurse. I can tell you first hand that when my sister was a nurse down here in South Carolina years ago, she was making awesome money. She was working in a nursing home, and I hear that hospitals pay even more.
Now that I think about it, all my sister did was push a drug cart. There was no blood involved in that. I know she had to do regular nursing while she was in school, like learning how to give shots and draw blood, and I am pretty sure I could handle that for a few weeks. I'm just not sure how I would do in the long run.
I mean, I almost threw up looking at Junior's finger yesterday. Maybe I wouldn't make a good nurse.
Annie
I love this movie.Brandi and I are watching it right now.
I will admit it.
I sing along.
How can you not???
Contests
It is not hard to find contests on the internet. Lots of bloggers run contests every day. They give away everything from books and cleaning products, to gift cards and, ahem, s e x toys. That last one always surprises me, because there is no way I would ever talk about stuff like that on my blog, let alone do a giveaway. Maybe I am just a prude.
I have, in the past, hosted my own contests. I have given away books and a couple of crafts I have made. I also participate in a lot of "pay it forward" type things. Those are always fun.
Some contests, though, have restrictions, and the biggest one I have found is that bloggers don't want to ship prizes overseas. I include myself in this. I have had Canadian winners, and the shipping costs were comparable to what I paid for my American winners. I wish I could afford to send things overseas. I know it's not the same as paying sea freight shipping costs, but I am sure it is still pretty expensive. Excluding a huge portion of bloggers from participating in contests stinks, so I am thinking that the next time I host a contest, I will leave it open to everyone, but if the winner lives overseas, they will have to pay shipping.
I think that is fair enough.
I have, in the past, hosted my own contests. I have given away books and a couple of crafts I have made. I also participate in a lot of "pay it forward" type things. Those are always fun.
Some contests, though, have restrictions, and the biggest one I have found is that bloggers don't want to ship prizes overseas. I include myself in this. I have had Canadian winners, and the shipping costs were comparable to what I paid for my American winners. I wish I could afford to send things overseas. I know it's not the same as paying sea freight shipping costs, but I am sure it is still pretty expensive. Excluding a huge portion of bloggers from participating in contests stinks, so I am thinking that the next time I host a contest, I will leave it open to everyone, but if the winner lives overseas, they will have to pay shipping.
I think that is fair enough.
I Found The Sleep I've Been Missing
This morning, once the kids were on the bus, I came back home and crashed.
Until 12:15!
And let me tell you...it felt so good. I really needed some straight sleep, and even though it was only about five and a half hours, I feel so much better. The kids are off of school tomorrow, so I don't have to get up at 5:15. I can sleep until I wake up on my own.
It's been a while since I've done that. It seems even on the weekends, there are reasons the alarm has been set so Junior could do one thing or another. He'll be at work in the morning, so I am going to enjoy sleeping in.
That is, if the kids are quiet!
Until 12:15!
And let me tell you...it felt so good. I really needed some straight sleep, and even though it was only about five and a half hours, I feel so much better. The kids are off of school tomorrow, so I don't have to get up at 5:15. I can sleep until I wake up on my own.
It's been a while since I've done that. It seems even on the weekends, there are reasons the alarm has been set so Junior could do one thing or another. He'll be at work in the morning, so I am going to enjoy sleeping in.
That is, if the kids are quiet!
Ryan And His TShirts
My son hates wearing long sleeved shirts. In fact, he will only wear golf shirts and tshirts. Every year he gets nice sweaters and longed sleeve shirts for Christmas, and I end up giving them to a friend of a friends little boy, because Ryan refuses to wear them.
I think it is a comfort thing.
He does have a nice collection of funny t shirts. He has one that says "my sister ate my homework", and another that has "10 reasons why I don't have my homework". The funnier the saying, the more likely he is to wear it.
I found this shirt that says "mom likes me best" and I know he would wear it, if only to annoy his sisters. This shirt is cool because it can be customized. I can pick the style of the shirt and the color. And, it is only $7.50. Not bad, right?
I am hoping Ryan will grow out of this stage, but for now, I will have to accept his odd sense of humor, and be thankful that he does have a few collared golf shirts he'll wear on special occasions.
I think it is a comfort thing.He does have a nice collection of funny t shirts. He has one that says "my sister ate my homework", and another that has "10 reasons why I don't have my homework". The funnier the saying, the more likely he is to wear it.
I found this shirt that says "mom likes me best" and I know he would wear it, if only to annoy his sisters. This shirt is cool because it can be customized. I can pick the style of the shirt and the color. And, it is only $7.50. Not bad, right?
I am hoping Ryan will grow out of this stage, but for now, I will have to accept his odd sense of humor, and be thankful that he does have a few collared golf shirts he'll wear on special occasions.
Kasi's Hair
Kasi begged me to cut her hair the other night. It was getting pretty long, and she hated it. As much as I love long hair, she prefers hers short, so I gave in and cut a few inches off. The only good thing about the short hair is that she lets me straighten it now before school. Don't get me wrong...I think she is beautiful no matter what the length of her hair is. I mean, she looks like me, so how could she not be? lol!
Mr. Kalinowski
Mr. Kalinowski was my fifth grade teacher.
I remember the first day of school that year. Back then, you didn't find out who your teacher was before the first day. You had no idea which friends would be in your class, or if you would like your teacher. In fifth grade, the teacher to fear was Mr. Kalinowski. No one wanted to hear there name called when he took the stage and began rounding up his class for the year. I remember how my heart sank when he called my name.
I was prepared to have a horrible year. I had heard the horror stories about how strict and mean he was. I waited every day for him to lose his temper and start yelling at the class. I held my breath every time someone forgot their homework, or acted out, for fear that we would all witness his dark side.
I waited all year, and it never happened.
Sure, he was strict, but in a good way. He expected the best of his students, and I thrived in that environment. I remember one time, and I don't know why this sticks in my head but it does, that I forgot to have my mom sign my reading log. This was the year I discovered my love of reading, and I think it was because of him. However, it was class policy that if you forgot or didn't do your homework, you missed recess. You had to sit inside and do work in "detention" while the rest of the class went out to the field. I was sitting in "detention" when Mr. Kalinowski came in the room and saw me. He came over and asked why I was in there, and I told him that I forgot to have my mom sign my log. He told me to go out with the rest of the class, because I was such a good student and he knew it was a mistake, not me not doing my homework. From that moment, I became the girl who ran all his errands, and I was the one put in charge when he had to leave the room.
Yeah, I was a good girl.
I wonder sometimes what happened to him. I know he no longer teachers, because my sister's kids go to that elementary school now. I tried looking him up on MyLife, but I can not for the life of me remember his first name. I need to do a little research, maybe go to the school district website and find an old teachers section. Not old, like age old, but old like used to teach there. Did that make sense? I have used MyLife in the past, so once I am armed with the proper information, I am hoping I will be able to find him.
Maybe I'll write him a letter, letting him know how much I appreciated him, and all that he did for me. I think he would like that.
I remember the first day of school that year. Back then, you didn't find out who your teacher was before the first day. You had no idea which friends would be in your class, or if you would like your teacher. In fifth grade, the teacher to fear was Mr. Kalinowski. No one wanted to hear there name called when he took the stage and began rounding up his class for the year. I remember how my heart sank when he called my name.
I was prepared to have a horrible year. I had heard the horror stories about how strict and mean he was. I waited every day for him to lose his temper and start yelling at the class. I held my breath every time someone forgot their homework, or acted out, for fear that we would all witness his dark side.
I waited all year, and it never happened.
Sure, he was strict, but in a good way. He expected the best of his students, and I thrived in that environment. I remember one time, and I don't know why this sticks in my head but it does, that I forgot to have my mom sign my reading log. This was the year I discovered my love of reading, and I think it was because of him. However, it was class policy that if you forgot or didn't do your homework, you missed recess. You had to sit inside and do work in "detention" while the rest of the class went out to the field. I was sitting in "detention" when Mr. Kalinowski came in the room and saw me. He came over and asked why I was in there, and I told him that I forgot to have my mom sign my log. He told me to go out with the rest of the class, because I was such a good student and he knew it was a mistake, not me not doing my homework. From that moment, I became the girl who ran all his errands, and I was the one put in charge when he had to leave the room.
Yeah, I was a good girl.
I wonder sometimes what happened to him. I know he no longer teachers, because my sister's kids go to that elementary school now. I tried looking him up on MyLife, but I can not for the life of me remember his first name. I need to do a little research, maybe go to the school district website and find an old teachers section. Not old, like age old, but old like used to teach there. Did that make sense? I have used MyLife in the past, so once I am armed with the proper information, I am hoping I will be able to find him.
Maybe I'll write him a letter, letting him know how much I appreciated him, and all that he did for me. I think he would like that.
Semi-Homemade With Jennifer Lynn
I'm no Sandra Lee, but I stumbled upon a yummy fake out bbq sauce, and it is sooo good.
I make a killer bbq chicken. It's so easy, yet so good. I just dice up chicken breasts, fry them, unbreaded, in a little olive oil, and when they are cooked through I add bbq sauce.
Normally, I just dump some store bought bbq sauce, honey, and brown sugar into the pan and mix it until it covers the chicken. That's it.
Well, the other night, Junior didn't want the bbq sauce on his chicken, so I made it separately. I put the store bought sauce, honey, and brown sugar in a little pot, and boiled it all together, stirring it with a whisk occasionally.
Holy cow....it got so thick and yummy! I wish I had measured how much of each I put in, because I will be doing this from now on whenever we use bbq sauce.
I make a killer bbq chicken. It's so easy, yet so good. I just dice up chicken breasts, fry them, unbreaded, in a little olive oil, and when they are cooked through I add bbq sauce.
Normally, I just dump some store bought bbq sauce, honey, and brown sugar into the pan and mix it until it covers the chicken. That's it.
Well, the other night, Junior didn't want the bbq sauce on his chicken, so I made it separately. I put the store bought sauce, honey, and brown sugar in a little pot, and boiled it all together, stirring it with a whisk occasionally.
Holy cow....it got so thick and yummy! I wish I had measured how much of each I put in, because I will be doing this from now on whenever we use bbq sauce.
Breastfeeding Versus Infant Formula
Eight more day and I will be an Aunt, again. I am so excited to meet this little girl or boy. When my sister decided not to find out the sex, I was disappointed. I mean, I make baby blankets, and I needed to know if it should be blue or pink.
I made a gender neutral multi-colored one.
Her timing for this baby is perfect, because it puts her on maternity leave for the Holidays. I am looking forward to helping her make the transition from one child to two. Wait, that sounds wrong. I mean I am looking forward to doing whatever she needs me to do to make her life a little easier the first few weeks with the new baby.
There, that sounds better.
The only thing I won't be able to do is feed the baby, because she plans on breastfeeding. That was always my favorite time with my kids when they were infants, especially the night feedings. I loved being the only two awake, sharing quality time. Weird, I know, but the truth. It was especially true with Brandi, because I worked during the day and didn't have a lot of one on one time with her. Maybe that explains her separation anxiety.
I tried the breastfeeding thing three times, and all three times I failed. I truly believe that it was because my boobs were too big. I did pump for the first couple of months for all of them, but after that they were strictly fed formula. Brandi drank the lactose free, and I just recently recommended the same thing for my nephew. My sister said she switched him to soy formula because of gas problems, and I suggested trying the lactose free first, because I have heard that the milk based formulas are better on babies tummies than soy based ones. (I do not know that this is a fact; it's just something I heard somewhere) I know she buys store brand formula to save money, and that is such a smart thing to do. I do know that this is a great idea, because all baby formula has to meet the same nutrition guidelines, and they are strictly regulated. I was on WIC with my kids, so they got the name brand formula through that, but I always had to buy an extra can or two every month, and I would buy the generic.
Why waste money where you don't have to?
I made a gender neutral multi-colored one.
Her timing for this baby is perfect, because it puts her on maternity leave for the Holidays. I am looking forward to helping her make the transition from one child to two. Wait, that sounds wrong. I mean I am looking forward to doing whatever she needs me to do to make her life a little easier the first few weeks with the new baby.
There, that sounds better.
The only thing I won't be able to do is feed the baby, because she plans on breastfeeding. That was always my favorite time with my kids when they were infants, especially the night feedings. I loved being the only two awake, sharing quality time. Weird, I know, but the truth. It was especially true with Brandi, because I worked during the day and didn't have a lot of one on one time with her. Maybe that explains her separation anxiety.
I tried the breastfeeding thing three times, and all three times I failed. I truly believe that it was because my boobs were too big. I did pump for the first couple of months for all of them, but after that they were strictly fed formula. Brandi drank the lactose free, and I just recently recommended the same thing for my nephew. My sister said she switched him to soy formula because of gas problems, and I suggested trying the lactose free first, because I have heard that the milk based formulas are better on babies tummies than soy based ones. (I do not know that this is a fact; it's just something I heard somewhere) I know she buys store brand formula to save money, and that is such a smart thing to do. I do know that this is a great idea, because all baby formula has to meet the same nutrition guidelines, and they are strictly regulated. I was on WIC with my kids, so they got the name brand formula through that, but I always had to buy an extra can or two every month, and I would buy the generic.
Why waste money where you don't have to?
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Um, Yeah, Gross
So, if any of you read my craft blog, you know about the fishing rod holders that Junior made. If not, check them out here. Anyway, he gave a couple to my dad, and he put them on Craig's List. They were listed yesterday evening, and last night Junior made a sale. It was a custom order, because the guy wants the part that goes into the ground to be longer. This posed a problem because we didn't have the money to go get the steel Junior needed to make them, but Junior being Junior, he agreed to have them made by Sunday.
So this afternoon, he went to a local bait shop, and sold two more. He didn't get nearly what he wanted for them, but the exposure will be good, and he made enough to buy the metal for the ones he needs to make.
When we got home, he whips out the saw and starts cutting the metal, so he can go to his friends house to weld them together. I am sitting at the computer, and I hear him outside cutting. Then I heard him at the door, asking for a rag because he thinks he cut his finger off.
Yeah, I was instantly nauseous. I do not deal well with blood, especially when it comes to saws and fingers. I'm thinking I have to go out there and hunt up his thumb so they can sew it back on. I grab a rag, and run outside...he didn't come in cause he was dripping blood everywhere!...and he wraps his thumb.
I couldn't look, and I don't think he could, either. I could, however, see that it is still attached, so that was a good sign. Poor Junior about passed out, so I got a chair under him, and told him I was calling my mom. (she's a nurse...this is right up her alley) He told me not too, and he checked it out himself.
Thank God he just put a huge hole in his nail, and sliced his thumb a little under the nail. He refused to go get stitches, and I honestly don't know what they would have done about his nail. I poured a ton of peroxide on it, and made him promise to go to the hospital tomorrow and get a tetanus shot. The blade that cut him was a little old and rusty, and it's been a while since he's had a shot. I know he won't go, and then his thumb will fall off, and I'll just be able to say "I told you so".
Men.
So this afternoon, he went to a local bait shop, and sold two more. He didn't get nearly what he wanted for them, but the exposure will be good, and he made enough to buy the metal for the ones he needs to make.
When we got home, he whips out the saw and starts cutting the metal, so he can go to his friends house to weld them together. I am sitting at the computer, and I hear him outside cutting. Then I heard him at the door, asking for a rag because he thinks he cut his finger off.
Yeah, I was instantly nauseous. I do not deal well with blood, especially when it comes to saws and fingers. I'm thinking I have to go out there and hunt up his thumb so they can sew it back on. I grab a rag, and run outside...he didn't come in cause he was dripping blood everywhere!...and he wraps his thumb.
I couldn't look, and I don't think he could, either. I could, however, see that it is still attached, so that was a good sign. Poor Junior about passed out, so I got a chair under him, and told him I was calling my mom. (she's a nurse...this is right up her alley) He told me not too, and he checked it out himself.
Thank God he just put a huge hole in his nail, and sliced his thumb a little under the nail. He refused to go get stitches, and I honestly don't know what they would have done about his nail. I poured a ton of peroxide on it, and made him promise to go to the hospital tomorrow and get a tetanus shot. The blade that cut him was a little old and rusty, and it's been a while since he's had a shot. I know he won't go, and then his thumb will fall off, and I'll just be able to say "I told you so".
Men.
Here Comes Santa Claus
It is time once again to tell you about the amazing getaways available at Hilton Promenade at Branson Landing. With Christmas just two, gasp, months away, the Holiday season is fast approaching. This is my favorite time of year, when people are a little nicer to one another, and you can feel the excitement in the air, especially if you have kids. I hate that as we grow older, the magic of Christmas disappears a little. I try very hard to keep that magic alive for my kids, because I want them to have wonderful memories of baking cookies and making presents to give to their grandparents. My fondest Christmas memories are the ones of my sisters and mom and I baking cookies all day long. There were sugar cookies, and chocolate chip cookies, and rolled cookies, and my all time favorites, almond spritz cookies.
Yum. That's all I can say. Yum.
I try to recreate these memories for my kids, as well as making new ones. We always have one night, right after Thanksgiving, where we drive around randomly, looking for houses with the best Christmas lights. I also make an ornament for each kid, with their name and the year, every year. I hope one day to let them take them for their own tress.
I seem to have gotten off track, which happens a lot when I get to talking about Christmas. I think I was starting to tell you about the Holiday packages available at the Hilton Branson Convention Center Hotel. They have several different packages available, but the one I want to tell you about involves Mr. and Mrs. Claus. Every Friday through Sunday, between November 15 and December 23, they are offering the Santa’s Coming to Town Package. Kids can enjoy story time in the lobby with Mrs. Claus, and then have Santa deliver milk, cookies, and presents to their rooms. My kids would love this, and this package starts at $189 a night.
Maybe we could make this one of our Christmas memories.
Yum. That's all I can say. Yum.
I try to recreate these memories for my kids, as well as making new ones. We always have one night, right after Thanksgiving, where we drive around randomly, looking for houses with the best Christmas lights. I also make an ornament for each kid, with their name and the year, every year. I hope one day to let them take them for their own tress.
I seem to have gotten off track, which happens a lot when I get to talking about Christmas. I think I was starting to tell you about the Holiday packages available at the Hilton Branson Convention Center Hotel. They have several different packages available, but the one I want to tell you about involves Mr. and Mrs. Claus. Every Friday through Sunday, between November 15 and December 23, they are offering the Santa’s Coming to Town Package. Kids can enjoy story time in the lobby with Mrs. Claus, and then have Santa deliver milk, cookies, and presents to their rooms. My kids would love this, and this package starts at $189 a night.
Maybe we could make this one of our Christmas memories.
Picnic Lunch At School With Brandi
Today, Brandi's school had a huge picnic lunch, and all the parents were invited.
Here's Brandi enjoying her hamburger.
Here's Brandi enjoying her hamburger.
Here's Brandi and her Daddy.
And here is me and my girl.
When it was time to leave, Brandi started crying. Talk about breaking my heart!As Junior and I walked to the car, I could see her standing on the playground, watching us. When she saw me looking, she blew me kisses and waved.
I really hope she stopped crying quick, and got to enjoy recess.
Today, I Like Being A Girl
Some days I really like being a girl. Other days, I wish I didn't have to deal with all things womanly. Today, I am happy to be a girl.
Why am I so happy, you ask? It's because I got to wear pretty earrings today. Most days, I don't leave the house, so there is no reason to put jewelry on. Heck, truth be told, most days I can be found in pajama pants and a tshirt waiting at the bus stop in the afternoon. Kind of sad, I know, but such is my life.
Brandi had a picnic at school for lunch today, so Junior and I went and joined her. Once I was showered and dressed, it was time to pick out the perfect jewelry. A few months ago I went a little nuts online and bought myself a whole bunch of handmade earrings. Since I hardly even have an excuse to wear them, it is tough to decide which ones I should wear when the opportunity arises. Today I chose silver dangley ones that have hearts at the bottom. They are really cute.
I wish I had these Jade Earrings because they would have matched what I wore today perfectly. Of course, most days I wear black, so it's easy to find earrings that match. I do, however, have green eyes, and I think these earrings would bring out that color.
It also helped this morning that I got on the scale, and I've lost another 2 pounds. I was shocked, but happy. When I try to lose weight, nothing happens. Add a little stress to my life, and I'm dropping pounds left and right.
It's not a bad thing. I'm just hoping that by the time we move in February, I am down to where I want to be, and that once my stress is gone, I don't put the weight back on. I like feeling pretty, and weight loss and jewelry sure do help me feel that way.
Why am I so happy, you ask? It's because I got to wear pretty earrings today. Most days, I don't leave the house, so there is no reason to put jewelry on. Heck, truth be told, most days I can be found in pajama pants and a tshirt waiting at the bus stop in the afternoon. Kind of sad, I know, but such is my life.
Brandi had a picnic at school for lunch today, so Junior and I went and joined her. Once I was showered and dressed, it was time to pick out the perfect jewelry. A few months ago I went a little nuts online and bought myself a whole bunch of handmade earrings. Since I hardly even have an excuse to wear them, it is tough to decide which ones I should wear when the opportunity arises. Today I chose silver dangley ones that have hearts at the bottom. They are really cute.
I wish I had these Jade Earrings because they would have matched what I wore today perfectly. Of course, most days I wear black, so it's easy to find earrings that match. I do, however, have green eyes, and I think these earrings would bring out that color. It also helped this morning that I got on the scale, and I've lost another 2 pounds. I was shocked, but happy. When I try to lose weight, nothing happens. Add a little stress to my life, and I'm dropping pounds left and right.
It's not a bad thing. I'm just hoping that by the time we move in February, I am down to where I want to be, and that once my stress is gone, I don't put the weight back on. I like feeling pretty, and weight loss and jewelry sure do help me feel that way.
Found Treasure
I was going through the drawers of my hutch and found this wallet. It has my initials from before I was married.
My Grandfather (Pop Pop). my mom's dad, made this for me when I was little. I don't think I ever used it, but I kept it all these years. You can't see the flowers very good, but you can make out the dog on the backside.
He has been gone for almost eight years now, and I am glad I have things to remember him by. I hope my kids keep some of their mementos from their childhood to look back on one day.
My Grandfather (Pop Pop). my mom's dad, made this for me when I was little. I don't think I ever used it, but I kept it all these years. You can't see the flowers very good, but you can make out the dog on the backside.
He has been gone for almost eight years now, and I am glad I have things to remember him by. I hope my kids keep some of their mementos from their childhood to look back on one day.
What Does Next Year Hold?
How many of you follow your horoscopes? I will admit to reading mine occasionally in a magazine, but I don't go out of my way to find it. I know there are people who read their daily horoscope first thing in the morning, and I believe it shapes their day. I mean, if someone tells you you are going to have a bad day, you are going to have a bad day. That's what I think, anyway.
If you want to see what next year holds for you, check out your horoscope 2010. I might go read mine, but trust me when I say that it is just for fun.
If you want to see what next year holds for you, check out your horoscope 2010. I might go read mine, but trust me when I say that it is just for fun.
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
School Picnic
Wednesday is picnic lunch day at Brandi's school. Junior and I (and all the other parents) will join Brandi's class in the cafeteria to get our bagged lunches and head outside for a picnic. We did this last year, and it was so much fun. I took this picture of Junior and Brandi during last years picnic. It was a wonderful father/daughter moment.I refuse to eat school food, so they will be eating together without me again this year.
I am perfectly happy to be the picture taker, though. Big surprise, right?
Crazy Hair Day
Today was crazy hair day at school. Luckily, we had some colored hair spray left over from Friday night, so we made Brandi's hair red and black to match her shirt.You can't really tell in the picture, but the right half of her head on top is black, with a red braid and black end. The other side looks pink, but it's really red with a black pony tail.
Her hair was definitely crazy!
I'm Taking It All With Me
When we moved into this apartment last year, there were no window treatments. No shades, no blinds, no curtains. I went out and bought venetian blinds, and I plan on taking them when we leave in February. In fact, I plan on taking every little thing we put into this house when we leave.
I wish I could figure out a way to take paint off the bathroom walls, and make them look like they did when we moved in. Trust me, they were hideous. They were white, with pink and purplish splashes of paint. To make them look better, the previous renters decided to paint blue and yellow fish on the front of the cabinet and the back of the door.
I hope where ever we end up next doesn't require any painting.
I wish I could figure out a way to take paint off the bathroom walls, and make them look like they did when we moved in. Trust me, they were hideous. They were white, with pink and purplish splashes of paint. To make them look better, the previous renters decided to paint blue and yellow fish on the front of the cabinet and the back of the door.
I hope where ever we end up next doesn't require any painting.
4 Hours Sleep Just Doesn't Do This Body Good
Yup. That's me.
I am sleep deprived, which is not good for anyone around here.
My phone has been ringing off the hook this morning, which is odd, because nobody EVER calls me, except of course for today. It's like everyone knew I needed some sleep, and there is some kind of conspiracy to stop me from closing my eyes.
So now I am trying to function on the 3 hours of sleep I got between 2:30 and 5:15 this morning, and the little cat nap I took from 7:30 to 8:40 after the kids got on the bus.
It's now 10:23 and I am seriously considering calling it a day, and going back to bed until Junior gets home.
I mean, is it going to kill someone if I skip the paid posting today????
Huh????
Trust me, you don't want to argue with me.
I'm really cranky.
I am sleep deprived, which is not good for anyone around here.
My phone has been ringing off the hook this morning, which is odd, because nobody EVER calls me, except of course for today. It's like everyone knew I needed some sleep, and there is some kind of conspiracy to stop me from closing my eyes.
So now I am trying to function on the 3 hours of sleep I got between 2:30 and 5:15 this morning, and the little cat nap I took from 7:30 to 8:40 after the kids got on the bus.
It's now 10:23 and I am seriously considering calling it a day, and going back to bed until Junior gets home.
I mean, is it going to kill someone if I skip the paid posting today????
Huh????
Trust me, you don't want to argue with me.
I'm really cranky.
Woolybooger
I finally convinced Ryan to let me cut his hair, and by cut I mean take the shaver too it and give him a buzz cut. He was wanting to let his hair grow out, but it is so curly. He ends up looking like he has a blond afro. I gave him the option of going to the barber (do they even have those anymore?) or letting me cut it.
He chose me.
While I was cutting hair, I got a hold of Junior, too. He seems to think he needs to grow his beard down to his chest, and I hate it. I hate the way his beard looks when it grows for even a week without a trim. He ends up looking like a woolybooger, and yes, that is a word. I think that he thinks that he needs to grow his beard long to make up for his Hair Loss. He is probably going to kill me for discussing this on here, but it's a fact he can not deny.
He is losing his hair.
I am convinced Male hair loss runs in his family, because his dad and his brother are also losing their hair. I keep telling Ryan that he should start getting used to the idea, because he will probably lose his hair as he gets older, too. Occasionally, Junior talks about trying some type of hair loss treatment, but in the end, he has decided to embrace his baldness.
To be honest, it doesn't bother me one bit. I love him anyway.
He chose me.
While I was cutting hair, I got a hold of Junior, too. He seems to think he needs to grow his beard down to his chest, and I hate it. I hate the way his beard looks when it grows for even a week without a trim. He ends up looking like a woolybooger, and yes, that is a word. I think that he thinks that he needs to grow his beard long to make up for his Hair Loss. He is probably going to kill me for discussing this on here, but it's a fact he can not deny.
He is losing his hair.
I am convinced Male hair loss runs in his family, because his dad and his brother are also losing their hair. I keep telling Ryan that he should start getting used to the idea, because he will probably lose his hair as he gets older, too. Occasionally, Junior talks about trying some type of hair loss treatment, but in the end, he has decided to embrace his baldness.
To be honest, it doesn't bother me one bit. I love him anyway.
Monday, October 19, 2009
Adult-Sitting
We, as a family, are pretty close with Junior's ex-in-laws, Jean and Del. (for those who don't know, Junior was married once before, and his ex-wife died, years after their divorce...in fact, he was married to me and she was also remarried at the time...but that is a whole other story I am not going to get into right now) Every Saturday for the past month, Jean has called and asked if Kasi wanted to go and sit with her mom, who is elderly and can not be left alone. Jean has running around to do on Saturday's, and doesn't want to take her mom with her.
So it falls on Kasi. For the past few weeks, she has gone, and spent ALL DAY with Jean's mom. I mean, she goes over around 10am and doesn't get home until 6 or 7 at night.
Kasi is 12, and doesn't want to do it anymore.
I can't blame her. It is boring for her, and she wants to spend her weekends doing things with us. So when Jean called Saturday morning around 9am, I told Junior to tell her that we had plans with my mom, and Kasi wanted to stay with me. (we did have plans with my mom...I didn't make that up) Well, Jean got really mad, and pretty much hung up on Junior.
That's not really fair. She can not seriously think that Kasi enjoys spending her Saturday's talking to an 80+ year old woman who can't remember what she said two minutes ago, so she spends the day repeating herself. (I am not being mean...imagine you are 12...what would you rather do?) I don't want to cause hard feelings, but Kasi isn't interested in doing it anymore.
How would you handle this situation?
So it falls on Kasi. For the past few weeks, she has gone, and spent ALL DAY with Jean's mom. I mean, she goes over around 10am and doesn't get home until 6 or 7 at night.
Kasi is 12, and doesn't want to do it anymore.
I can't blame her. It is boring for her, and she wants to spend her weekends doing things with us. So when Jean called Saturday morning around 9am, I told Junior to tell her that we had plans with my mom, and Kasi wanted to stay with me. (we did have plans with my mom...I didn't make that up) Well, Jean got really mad, and pretty much hung up on Junior.
That's not really fair. She can not seriously think that Kasi enjoys spending her Saturday's talking to an 80+ year old woman who can't remember what she said two minutes ago, so she spends the day repeating herself. (I am not being mean...imagine you are 12...what would you rather do?) I don't want to cause hard feelings, but Kasi isn't interested in doing it anymore.
How would you handle this situation?
Working, Christmas, And Kids ~ Oh My
I feel like all I have been writing about lately is my lack of finding a job. I know the economy is not so good right now, and that there are people out there who are having a harder time than I am. I am lucky that Junior is employed, and that his job is not in jeopardy. There are many people out there who have no income, so I should not be complaining.
However, I am beginning to think we are going to be in trouble come Christmastime. My family already does the "no adult gifts" thing, and in the past, it has been suggested that we draw names for the kids. I don't want to have to do this, but I also don't want to spend all of my money on my nieces and nephews, leaving less money for my own kids. I think I might suggest a $5 limit on gifts for kids, or something like that. Even at $5, I will spend $60. If I suggested $10 per kid, that would be $120. I don't want to sound like Scrooge, but I don't have that kind of money this year.
This is going to be tough.
I really hope that my kids go to college, or at least a trade school. I want them to do better than Junior and I. It is not fun working 40 hours a week, and bringing home just enough money to make the bills. I want my kids to get great jobs. Or better yet, I want them to own their own businesses. They can become Painters by opening a College Pro franchise, or they can become lawyers and doctors. Whatever they decide, I hope they are happy, and successful.
For now, I will continue to apply for jobs online. Hopefully since it is getting closer to the holiday season, the grocery stores will start hiring seasonal help. Right now, I will take whatever I can get.
However, I am beginning to think we are going to be in trouble come Christmastime. My family already does the "no adult gifts" thing, and in the past, it has been suggested that we draw names for the kids. I don't want to have to do this, but I also don't want to spend all of my money on my nieces and nephews, leaving less money for my own kids. I think I might suggest a $5 limit on gifts for kids, or something like that. Even at $5, I will spend $60. If I suggested $10 per kid, that would be $120. I don't want to sound like Scrooge, but I don't have that kind of money this year.
This is going to be tough.
I really hope that my kids go to college, or at least a trade school. I want them to do better than Junior and I. It is not fun working 40 hours a week, and bringing home just enough money to make the bills. I want my kids to get great jobs. Or better yet, I want them to own their own businesses. They can become Painters by opening a College Pro franchise, or they can become lawyers and doctors. Whatever they decide, I hope they are happy, and successful.
For now, I will continue to apply for jobs online. Hopefully since it is getting closer to the holiday season, the grocery stores will start hiring seasonal help. Right now, I will take whatever I can get.
Sister's Week Tag
I was tagged by Maria at Life's Sweets And Spices. I don't think it is sister's week anymore, but I love the sentiment behind this.
Be the kind of women that when your feet hit the floor each morning,
The devil says “Oh Crap, She’s Up.”
Sister, life is too short to wake up with regrets.
So love the people who treat you right.
Love the ones who don’t just because you can.
Believe in everything happens for a reason.
If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands.
If it changes your life, let it.
Kiss slowly. Forgive quickly.
God never said life would be easy.
He just promise it would be worth it.
Today is sister’s day.
To the cool women that have touched my life.
this is for you…..LOVE U!!!
Rules:
Tag all your sisters, mothers, daughters, aunts, girlfriends.
If you get tag back seven times, you are loved.
Happy sister’s day! LOVE YA SISTA!!!
Girlfriend and sisters WEEK.
I am having a hard time tagging just a few of you, so I am passing this along to all of you who have touched my heart and my life in the past year. It could have been a comment that made smile, an email when I needed it, virtual hugs and kisses, or even a simple phone call checking on me. I hope I have touched some of you like you have touched me.
You know who you are!
Another Missed Opportunity
My sister has a dog named Gabby. Gabby is a Cocker Spaniel. She is a cute dog, but very high maintenance. My sister bred her a few times, and the puppies were adorable.
A few years ago she decided to have Gabby fixed, and she was working for a vet at the time. The vet let my sister assist with the surgery, which I think is pretty gross. I could never do that. I guess it helped that my sister is a nurse, so she had experience with that type of thing.
If you are looking for veterinary technician employment, more power to you. I will continue to look for a job where I don't have to witness blood and guts on a daily basis.
Oh, and on a side note, the candle store already hired someone. I guess I waited too long to apply.
A few years ago she decided to have Gabby fixed, and she was working for a vet at the time. The vet let my sister assist with the surgery, which I think is pretty gross. I could never do that. I guess it helped that my sister is a nurse, so she had experience with that type of thing.
If you are looking for veterinary technician employment, more power to you. I will continue to look for a job where I don't have to witness blood and guts on a daily basis.
Oh, and on a side note, the candle store already hired someone. I guess I waited too long to apply.
House Wishing
I would say house hunting, but there is no way we would qualify for a mortgage right now.
Junior and I drove around a bit today, looking for places that are for rent. We found a few 3 bedroom trailers, but they weren't in the area we want to live. I don't want to make Brandi switch schools, and the places we found today are a different elementary school. The older kids are easy, because they are in the Jr. High, and it doesn't matter where we move in the district because they would still be in the same school.
Junior told Brandi today that if she did end up having to switch schools, he would pay her $25. She told him to make it $30 and they'd have a deal.
I found it funny that my 7 year old already knows how to haggle to get what she wants.
Junior and I drove around a bit today, looking for places that are for rent. We found a few 3 bedroom trailers, but they weren't in the area we want to live. I don't want to make Brandi switch schools, and the places we found today are a different elementary school. The older kids are easy, because they are in the Jr. High, and it doesn't matter where we move in the district because they would still be in the same school.
Junior told Brandi today that if she did end up having to switch schools, he would pay her $25. She told him to make it $30 and they'd have a deal.
I found it funny that my 7 year old already knows how to haggle to get what she wants.
Free Business Cards
I have been looking for business cards for this site, but kept forgetting about my craft site. Since I sell a lot of the stuff that is on there, I figured I should have business cards for that site too.
I don't want to invest too much money into them, because I am not sure how many I will need. Finding these free business cards was perfect, because I can now see how fast I give these out, and then know how many to order for the future. I want to make sure I have some when my mom and I start doing craft shows.
And if you know me at all by now, you know I do not pass up free stuff.
Ever.
I don't want to invest too much money into them, because I am not sure how many I will need. Finding these free business cards was perfect, because I can now see how fast I give these out, and then know how many to order for the future. I want to make sure I have some when my mom and I start doing craft shows.And if you know me at all by now, you know I do not pass up free stuff.
Ever.
Product Testers
Okay all you popular bloggers out there. I have a question for you.
How do you get all those products that you test, especially the books? I am most interested in getting into that Chicken Soup club where they send you two books...one to review and read, and one to give away. I have been on their website, and can't find anything to lead me in the right direction.
Please share your secrets with me. You can even email me if you don't want the world to know.
Thanks!!!
How do you get all those products that you test, especially the books? I am most interested in getting into that Chicken Soup club where they send you two books...one to review and read, and one to give away. I have been on their website, and can't find anything to lead me in the right direction.
Please share your secrets with me. You can even email me if you don't want the world to know.
Thanks!!!
Sunday, October 18, 2009
They're Finally Moving!
Why is it that now that my neighbors are moving, we are getting along?
A few weeks ago, Paige was outside and started up a conversation with me as I was walking Brandi back from the bus stop. We talked for a little while, mostly about how horrible the management company is. Then on Friday, while getting the kids ready for the party, she walked over and started talking to Junior and I. I was spraying the girls hair outside because I didn't want to inadvertently color my carpet red and black and pink. I also did their makeup outside because the light was better.
Anyway, we were talking about Ryan's birthday, and how they won't be here for his actual birthday, which is November 6. She said they got their house, and will be moving in about three weeks. I would recommend they use a Los Angeles Moving Company, but we are in South Carolina, so that really doesn't help her. It's too bad, though, because this Moving Company in Los Angeles specializes in being affordable, reliable and professional. They also consider customer satisfaction their number one priority. It would be nice dealing with a company that listens to their customers, and tries to make them happy. Maybe the management company we rent from should take some pointers from them. Do you think I should send them the number to the Movers in Los Angeles, or is that too much?
Okay, back to my story. While we were talking, Paige mentioned that she was packing up her clothes and had a few bags of shirts she was going to take to Goodwill. She asked if my girls would like them, to either sleep or play in. Kasi said yes right away, so how could I say no? Paige said once she got them all together she would bring them over.
This afternoon my doorbell rings, and it's her with three bags of clothes for the girls. I asked her to come in, and I showed her how awful my ceilings looks. She said hers weren't nearly as bad as mine, and I told her that I would rather have leaks than mice and snakes.
And speaking of my horrible apartment, I was told by several people Friday night that Junior and I should be able to break our lease because of the management company's refusal to fix things. I was so embarrassed, because we still had to have buckets on the floor in the kitchen catching dripping water. Thank goodness my friends were understanding, because they know what we are going through. I just can not wait until February.
Four more months. That's what I chant all day long.
Four more months.
A few weeks ago, Paige was outside and started up a conversation with me as I was walking Brandi back from the bus stop. We talked for a little while, mostly about how horrible the management company is. Then on Friday, while getting the kids ready for the party, she walked over and started talking to Junior and I. I was spraying the girls hair outside because I didn't want to inadvertently color my carpet red and black and pink. I also did their makeup outside because the light was better.
Anyway, we were talking about Ryan's birthday, and how they won't be here for his actual birthday, which is November 6. She said they got their house, and will be moving in about three weeks. I would recommend they use a Los Angeles Moving Company, but we are in South Carolina, so that really doesn't help her. It's too bad, though, because this Moving Company in Los Angeles specializes in being affordable, reliable and professional. They also consider customer satisfaction their number one priority. It would be nice dealing with a company that listens to their customers, and tries to make them happy. Maybe the management company we rent from should take some pointers from them. Do you think I should send them the number to the Movers in Los Angeles, or is that too much?
Okay, back to my story. While we were talking, Paige mentioned that she was packing up her clothes and had a few bags of shirts she was going to take to Goodwill. She asked if my girls would like them, to either sleep or play in. Kasi said yes right away, so how could I say no? Paige said once she got them all together she would bring them over.
This afternoon my doorbell rings, and it's her with three bags of clothes for the girls. I asked her to come in, and I showed her how awful my ceilings looks. She said hers weren't nearly as bad as mine, and I told her that I would rather have leaks than mice and snakes.
And speaking of my horrible apartment, I was told by several people Friday night that Junior and I should be able to break our lease because of the management company's refusal to fix things. I was so embarrassed, because we still had to have buckets on the floor in the kitchen catching dripping water. Thank goodness my friends were understanding, because they know what we are going through. I just can not wait until February.
Four more months. That's what I chant all day long.
Four more months.
Yuck
That's my word for today...yuck.
I ate so much junk food on Friday at the party that I have been feeling gross all weekend. Everything I try to eat looks like yuck, so I am just not eating.
What I really want...but they are all gone...are more brownies. They were soooo good.
It's a good thing I don't have any more mix in the house, or I would make more.
Sad, I know.
I ate so much junk food on Friday at the party that I have been feeling gross all weekend. Everything I try to eat looks like yuck, so I am just not eating.
What I really want...but they are all gone...are more brownies. They were soooo good.
It's a good thing I don't have any more mix in the house, or I would make more.
Sad, I know.
Saturday, October 17, 2009
Adopting A Kitten
Ever since we had to put our cat, Oliver, to sleep last year, I have been looking for another that looks like he did, because he was absolutely beautiful. We have looked in the papers with no luck, basically because they don't put pictures in the ads. A friend told me about Petango.com - Adopt a cat!, so I decided to take a look this morning.
Check out the kitten I found. It looks exactly like Ollie did as a kitten. This is a female named Noodle, and she is in a shelter about 45 minutes from here. I wish we could have pets here, because I would go get her right now. But, we will have to wait until we move, and hopefully it will be somewhere that allows pets.
Petango.com - Adopt a cat! allows you to put in your zip code, and then how far you are willing to travel to find the perfect pet. You have options for age, color, gender, and even breed. The only thing that bothers me is that I want to bring every cat home with me. They are all adorable. It breaks my heart that there are so many unwanted pets in this world, and I wish I could take every one of them in and take care of them, but I know that is impossible. I will just have to settle for loving one little baby, and hopefully we will live somewhere that that will be possible.
For now, I will just love the two boys we have outside.
Oh, and for you dog lovers out there, you can check out Petango.com - Adopt a dog today!
Check out the kitten I found. It looks exactly like Ollie did as a kitten. This is a female named Noodle, and she is in a shelter about 45 minutes from here. I wish we could have pets here, because I would go get her right now. But, we will have to wait until we move, and hopefully it will be somewhere that allows pets.Petango.com - Adopt a cat! allows you to put in your zip code, and then how far you are willing to travel to find the perfect pet. You have options for age, color, gender, and even breed. The only thing that bothers me is that I want to bring every cat home with me. They are all adorable. It breaks my heart that there are so many unwanted pets in this world, and I wish I could take every one of them in and take care of them, but I know that is impossible. I will just have to settle for loving one little baby, and hopefully we will live somewhere that that will be possible.
For now, I will just love the two boys we have outside.
Oh, and for you dog lovers out there, you can check out Petango.com - Adopt a dog today!
I Thought My Daughters Were Blond
Brandi, my pink fairy. She was so excited to have her hair colored, and she looked great.
Kasi wanted to be a vampire, and I think she looked awesome! I did her makeup, and her hair had red streaks on top of the black. She looked like a completely different kid, She kind of freaked out her cousin.
I will post more pictures on facebook either later or tomorrow. I am pretty tired right now and ready to hit the bed.
Should It Rain INSIDE The House?
I was pretty embarrassed last night having buckets on the floor catching water from my leaking ceiling. It was really bad when one of the kids was standing in the living room, and he looked at me and said he just got wet.
Yeah, it was wonderful.
I was told by several people that we should just move, because the terms of our lease were broken when they refused to come out and fix things. I wish we could, but financially we are unable right now.
Four more months and we are out of here.
I have mentioned before that I have been looking at kids furniture, trying to find bunk beds to put in the girls room when we do move. I am having a hard time deciding which ones I like best, so I have no idea what they will end up with.
I was also thinking of getting Ryan a new bedroom set, because his futon is falling apart. I guess they aren't made to last long, especially this one that we bought at Walmart for $100. While looking at young adult furniture for his room, it struck me as odd that there aren't many choices when it comes to boys furniture. Most sets are designed more towards girls, with canopy's and flowing lines. I found the set in the picture for Ryan, and really like the clean lines of the furniture. I don't think "girl" at all when I look at it.
Hopefully we will have enough money to get this for him when we do move.
Yeah, it was wonderful.
I was told by several people that we should just move, because the terms of our lease were broken when they refused to come out and fix things. I wish we could, but financially we are unable right now.
Four more months and we are out of here.
I have mentioned before that I have been looking at kids furniture, trying to find bunk beds to put in the girls room when we do move. I am having a hard time deciding which ones I like best, so I have no idea what they will end up with.
I was also thinking of getting Ryan a new bedroom set, because his futon is falling apart. I guess they aren't made to last long, especially this one that we bought at Walmart for $100. While looking at young adult furniture for his room, it struck me as odd that there aren't many choices when it comes to boys furniture. Most sets are designed more towards girls, with canopy's and flowing lines. I found the set in the picture for Ryan, and really like the clean lines of the furniture. I don't think "girl" at all when I look at it.Hopefully we will have enough money to get this for him when we do move.
All Cleaned Up
The dishes are done.
The extra table is back outside.
The trash is taken off.
The decorations still need to be taken down, but they aren't bothering anything.
Now I finally get to relax.
The extra table is back outside.
The trash is taken off.
The decorations still need to be taken down, but they aren't bothering anything.
Now I finally get to relax.
The Perfect Job For Me
I think I finally found the perfect job for me. No, it's not medical clerk careers that I am looking into; it's candle sales. There is this little boutique down the road from me, literally within walking distance, and they need someone part time on Thursdays and Fridays. I talked with our therapist yesterday, and switched our appointments from Thursdays to Wednesdays. Now as soon as my sister has her baby, I am going to apply.
Wish me luck.
Wish me luck.
My Cafe
Like I needed another facebook game to keep me busy! My newest obsession is Cafe World. I love making the food, and serving the customers. I love buying things for my cafe, and rearranging the furniture. If you play, come by and be my neighbor!
A New Watch?
It's that time of year again when I try to think of the perfect gift to get Junior for Christmas. I have been looking at watches, because he has hinted that he would like one to wear to work. I am going to use Jomashop coupons to save money on a watch for him. He wants something nice, but nothing too fancy. He doesn't need gold and diamonds. In fact, I think he would prefer something with a leather strap. I love that he is not into material things. Neither am I for that matter. But, I do want to get him a watch I know he will like.
Maybe I'll just let him pick it out. Is that cheating?
Maybe I'll just let him pick it out. Is that cheating?
The Sounds Of Silence
I didn't think I would make it through the night.
The boys were boys, and they were crazy!
I mean, absolutely insane!
I was quick to develop a headache, and was so happy when the last kid left. (not you, Missy...you know who I mean! lol)
Now, my kids are sleeping, and it is quiet.
And I am enjoying it.
The boys were boys, and they were crazy!
I mean, absolutely insane!
I was quick to develop a headache, and was so happy when the last kid left. (not you, Missy...you know who I mean! lol)
Now, my kids are sleeping, and it is quiet.
And I am enjoying it.
Thursday, October 15, 2009
I Loved The Rodeo
I grew up on Long Island, in New York. In the 22 years I lived there, I never went to a rodeo. Horses were used for polo and jumping competitions, not for bucking off cowboys.
I have lived in South Carolina for almost sixteen years. I can now say that I have experienced a rodeo first hand, and I loved it. I have also been to a tractor pull, and let me tell you, for a northern girl, that was not an enjoyable experience. I mean, who wants to watch a truck pull a tractor? That's really all it was, and it was so boring.
A few years ago, Junior talked me into going to a rodeo. I didn't know exactly what to expect. I knew there would be horses, and that there would probably be girls dressed in plaid riding them around barrels. I was right about that. I was also pleasantly surprised when the bull riders took the arena.
It was awesome! My son and I were gasping when the riders fell, and cheering when they lasted long enough. Then the bucking horses came out, and I liked that almost as much as the bulls. Watching them try to throw off their riders made me hold my breath.
The rodeo we went to was a small scale, according to my husband. I would love to go see a real rodeo, with professional riders. I hear that Texas really knows their bulls, and I am trying to convince Junior to get Tickets to concerts at the Houston Rodeo. Not only would we be able to see some awesome bull riding, they have well known artists perform on stage in the center of the arena afterwords. The line up will be announced October 19, and I am curious who will be performing on March 21, because that is Junior's birthday, and I think the tickets can be within our price range, if I save some of our tax refund.
Now, if I could only find someone in Texas who wouldn't mind me and mine crashing at their house for a few nights.
I have lived in South Carolina for almost sixteen years. I can now say that I have experienced a rodeo first hand, and I loved it. I have also been to a tractor pull, and let me tell you, for a northern girl, that was not an enjoyable experience. I mean, who wants to watch a truck pull a tractor? That's really all it was, and it was so boring.
A few years ago, Junior talked me into going to a rodeo. I didn't know exactly what to expect. I knew there would be horses, and that there would probably be girls dressed in plaid riding them around barrels. I was right about that. I was also pleasantly surprised when the bull riders took the arena.
It was awesome! My son and I were gasping when the riders fell, and cheering when they lasted long enough. Then the bucking horses came out, and I liked that almost as much as the bulls. Watching them try to throw off their riders made me hold my breath.
The rodeo we went to was a small scale, according to my husband. I would love to go see a real rodeo, with professional riders. I hear that Texas really knows their bulls, and I am trying to convince Junior to get Tickets to concerts at the Houston Rodeo. Not only would we be able to see some awesome bull riding, they have well known artists perform on stage in the center of the arena afterwords. The line up will be announced October 19, and I am curious who will be performing on March 21, because that is Junior's birthday, and I think the tickets can be within our price range, if I save some of our tax refund.
Now, if I could only find someone in Texas who wouldn't mind me and mine crashing at their house for a few nights.
The Box Movie Trailer
I just talked about this movie a few posts down, and I wanted to find the trailer, too, to show you how good this movie looks. And, of course, to oogle at James Marsden.
THE BOX: Movie Trailer - Funny video clips are a click away
Looks good, right?
THE BOX: Movie Trailer - Funny video clips are a click away
Looks good, right?
Christmas Cards
Two months and ten days until Christmas.
This is usually my favorite time of year, but I am feeling a little stressed this year. I am not sure how we are going to come up with the money to go shopping for the things the kids are asking for. Luckily, they haven't asked for anything big, so a few little presents will have to be enough.
I hate it. They do without so much during the year, and in the past we have always found a way to get them everything they have asked for at Christmas, within reason, of course. I just feel like they are going to be disappointed this year. I know they will be thankful for what they do get, don't get me wrong. They would never, ever complain. Maybe it's just me, as a parent, wanting them to have everything they ask for.
Is that wrong?
Anyway, I am also trying to get my Christmas card list together. I have all my addresses from last year, but I know a few of you have moved, and a bunch of you are friends I have made throughout this past year. If you want to exchange, just send me an email with your address, and I'll send you mine. Easy enough.
I have been looking for cute address labels online, and found this "Merry Christmas" one. I am always drawn to the more cutsie Christmas things than the traditional ones. I prefer bright colors to the muted maroons and forest greens.
To each his, or her, own, I guess.
This is usually my favorite time of year, but I am feeling a little stressed this year. I am not sure how we are going to come up with the money to go shopping for the things the kids are asking for. Luckily, they haven't asked for anything big, so a few little presents will have to be enough.
I hate it. They do without so much during the year, and in the past we have always found a way to get them everything they have asked for at Christmas, within reason, of course. I just feel like they are going to be disappointed this year. I know they will be thankful for what they do get, don't get me wrong. They would never, ever complain. Maybe it's just me, as a parent, wanting them to have everything they ask for.
Is that wrong?
Anyway, I am also trying to get my Christmas card list together. I have all my addresses from last year, but I know a few of you have moved, and a bunch of you are friends I have made throughout this past year. If you want to exchange, just send me an email with your address, and I'll send you mine. Easy enough.I have been looking for cute address labels online, and found this "Merry Christmas" one. I am always drawn to the more cutsie Christmas things than the traditional ones. I prefer bright colors to the muted maroons and forest greens.
To each his, or her, own, I guess.
The Box
Norma and Arthur Lewis, a suburban couple with a young child, receive a simple wooden box as a gift, which bears fatal and irrevocable consequences. A mysterious stranger, delivers the message that the box promises to bestow upon its owner $1 million with the press of a button. But, pressing this button will simultaneously cause the death of another human being somewhere in the world; someone they don't know. With just 24 hours to have the box in their possession, Norma and Arthur find themselves in the cross-hairs of a startling moral dilemma and must face the true nature of their humanity. (written by Warner Bros. Pictures)How awesome does this movie sound?
There are very few times I will see a movie trailer and really want to spent the money to see it in the theater.
I really want to see this one.
Why, you ask? Because it has Mr. Cutie James Marsden in it. In case you don't know, once my marriage to Keith Urban is over (aka I used him for naughty things and moved on), Mr. Marsden will be husband number 3 for me. Or maybe he can be number two and Keith can be number three, although I am not sure I would give up James for Keith. James is a lot cuter, but Keith has that sexy thing going on...
Like any of this would EVER happen! lol! But a girl can dream!
Seroiusly thought, this movie sounds like it is going to be great. Who wants to go see it with me? Junior hates going to the movies.
What About Kasandra?
I am not sure if I mentioned that I was having trouble with my kids medicaid. They were in a program that my doctor's office no longer accepted, so I had to fight to get them switched. I finally got the letter today saying they were accepted into the new plan.
Well, Ryan and Brandi were. It seems they forgot about Kasi.
Figures. Nothing is ever easy for me.
I called, and after being on hold for a while, and then being transferred, I finally found the person who could help me. Turns out that Kasi was removed from the old plan, but not put into the new one. My case worker put her in the plan with the other kids, and now all I have to do is wait on their new cards to arrive in the next two weeks. I can not complain at all about the service I received today, because every single person was polite and helpful. Granted, it took a while to straighten things out, but I was okay with that because I wasn't dealing with rude people. It got me thinking that maybe I should look into case manager employment. I think I would be good at it.
Well, Ryan and Brandi were. It seems they forgot about Kasi.
Figures. Nothing is ever easy for me.
I called, and after being on hold for a while, and then being transferred, I finally found the person who could help me. Turns out that Kasi was removed from the old plan, but not put into the new one. My case worker put her in the plan with the other kids, and now all I have to do is wait on their new cards to arrive in the next two weeks. I can not complain at all about the service I received today, because every single person was polite and helpful. Granted, it took a while to straighten things out, but I was okay with that because I wasn't dealing with rude people. It got me thinking that maybe I should look into case manager employment. I think I would be good at it.
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