I am all about saving money these days. Christmas is less than two months away, and I just started shopping. And by shopping I mean I have picked up a few stocking stuffers for the girls. I need to find the money to do some real shopping, which means I will be cutting back in other areas, like cigarettes and food, neither of which I really need. Well, maybe I need to eat, but I could really do without the smoking.
If you are looking for ways to save money, too, and need new cheap eyeglasses you should check out zennioptical.com. They have glasses for less than $10, and from what I hear, they are pretty decent. In fact, I have yet to hear of anyone having a bad experience with them. I am interested to know how your experience was if you have ever bought glasses from them. I really want new glasses, but I won't have the money until after Christmas. If I can get a decent pair or two cheap, that would be awesome.
I am also interested in any other tips you guys have for saving money. Leave me comments. I need all the help I can get!
Monday, October 31, 2011
Babies Are Cuter Than Puppies!
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There seems to be a lot of debate about which are cuter, Puppies vs. Babies. Now, before you get all excited, let me tell you why I think babies are cuter than puppies. Babies smell good, especially right after a bath. They smile and coo, and grab your fingers with their tiny little hands. They lay their heads on your chest and sleep all cuddles up in your arms.
I know puppies are adorable. They are all fluffy and playful, but they don't smile and eat up shoes and anything else they can find. Sure, puppies grow up into dogs that don't talk back and have teenaged attitudes, which does give them an advantage over babies. But, there is nothing cuter than a face like this:
Now, if you agree with me, go vote in the Puppies vs. Babies online contest. All you have to do is pick which you think are cuter, babies or puppies. Then you get to vote on the pictures that are in the contest. You have until November 23 to cast your vote, and the winning puppy or baby will get $5000. IN my opinion, a child could use that money a whole lot more than a puppy can. I mean, babies grow up and have to go to college. That money could help with that expense.
So tell me, which are you going to vote for?
Saturday, October 29, 2011
Prefense Non-Alcohol Hand Sanitizer Review And Giveaway
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The Nerve Of Some People
What would you do if someone called the school for information about your kids? Someone who is not related to you and has no business even being involved with anything to do with your kids schooling?
Me? I called her and blasted her out. I mean, I am their mom. It's my job, not hers, to deal with everything in their lives. It pisses me off to no end that she thinks she has any right, whatsoever, to check up behind me.
I am also pretty pissed that the school even discussed my child with her. They are going to get a phone call from me on Monday as well. I wonder if she pretended to be me to get the information?
I am getting so sick and tired of this person thinking she has any say when it comes to my kids. They are nothing to her. They have a mom. They have a dad. They don't need anyone else.
The thing that kills me is that she seems to think I am the bad person in all of this. I am not the one who did anything wrong. I didn't steal someone's husband. I didn't break apart a family. The only thing I do is make sure my kids are happy and safe.
And that's MY job!
Me? I called her and blasted her out. I mean, I am their mom. It's my job, not hers, to deal with everything in their lives. It pisses me off to no end that she thinks she has any right, whatsoever, to check up behind me.
I am also pretty pissed that the school even discussed my child with her. They are going to get a phone call from me on Monday as well. I wonder if she pretended to be me to get the information?
I am getting so sick and tired of this person thinking she has any say when it comes to my kids. They are nothing to her. They have a mom. They have a dad. They don't need anyone else.
The thing that kills me is that she seems to think I am the bad person in all of this. I am not the one who did anything wrong. I didn't steal someone's husband. I didn't break apart a family. The only thing I do is make sure my kids are happy and safe.
And that's MY job!
Someday, Maybe
I would love to someday own my own home. Of course, that would mean I would also have to someday win the lottery, and since I don't actually play the lottery, I guess I'm out of luck. But, if I did ever have the opportunity to have a home of my own, I would want it build to my specifications.
Of course, it would have a huge kitchen. The rest of the house wouldn't matter too much to me, but I would be very adamant about what my kitchen would be like. First off, it would be huge. I would want room for a huge table and lots and lots of appliances. I watch a lot of food shows on television, and I love the big stoves that the chefs use. Yes, I realize that that might not be practical in a regular home, but I want one anyway.
Second, I would want lots of counter space. I have seen some beautiful Marble Countertops, especially the ones that are dark in color. The kitchen counter in my apartment are almost white, and every little thing stains them. I spend more time cleaning the counters with bleach than I do cooking.
Third, I would want a huge fridge. I used to have a beautiful, big black fridge, but when I moved here I had to sell it. The one I have now is tiny, and it doesn't hold much, which stinks because I used to food shop once a month, and now I have to go once a week because I have no room to store food.
Lastly, I would want to hire a maid to clean my kitchen after I cook a delicious meal for my kids. It's more fun to cook than it is to clean.
Of course, it would have a huge kitchen. The rest of the house wouldn't matter too much to me, but I would be very adamant about what my kitchen would be like. First off, it would be huge. I would want room for a huge table and lots and lots of appliances. I watch a lot of food shows on television, and I love the big stoves that the chefs use. Yes, I realize that that might not be practical in a regular home, but I want one anyway.
Second, I would want lots of counter space. I have seen some beautiful Marble Countertops, especially the ones that are dark in color. The kitchen counter in my apartment are almost white, and every little thing stains them. I spend more time cleaning the counters with bleach than I do cooking.
Third, I would want a huge fridge. I used to have a beautiful, big black fridge, but when I moved here I had to sell it. The one I have now is tiny, and it doesn't hold much, which stinks because I used to food shop once a month, and now I have to go once a week because I have no room to store food.
Lastly, I would want to hire a maid to clean my kitchen after I cook a delicious meal for my kids. It's more fun to cook than it is to clean.
Time For Heat
The beginning of this week, the weather here in South Carolina was beautiful. Today, it's cold. Really cold. I still don't have a thermostat on my car and I had to go out this morning to drop off medicine with Ryan, and I was freezing. I wanted to put the heat on in my car, but I think I need the thermostat before I can. Though I'm not sure. Maybe I froze for nothing.
I still haven't turned the heat on in my apartment either, and it's almost November. I know I will have to do that soon, but I am enjoying the lower power bills, since I am not running my a/c much anymore either. I would love to look into solar energy california and find a way to lower my power bill that way, but since I do live in an apartment, I don't think that is a realistic option for me.
I think the best way for me to keep my power bill under control is to wait as long as I can to turn the heat on. The kids and I can layer our clothes and snuggle under blankets while watching television. And I don't know about you, but I always sleep better then the house is a little chilly.
Especially when I have someone in my bed to snuggle with.
I still haven't turned the heat on in my apartment either, and it's almost November. I know I will have to do that soon, but I am enjoying the lower power bills, since I am not running my a/c much anymore either. I would love to look into solar energy california and find a way to lower my power bill that way, but since I do live in an apartment, I don't think that is a realistic option for me.
I think the best way for me to keep my power bill under control is to wait as long as I can to turn the heat on. The kids and I can layer our clothes and snuggle under blankets while watching television. And I don't know about you, but I always sleep better then the house is a little chilly.
Especially when I have someone in my bed to snuggle with.
My Future
I think about this a lot these days. I want the best for me and my kids, and that means that I need to find a way to make sure we have enough money coming into the house. Right now, I work part time for minimum wage. With the child support I get, I am able to pay my bills every month, but there is never any money left over for fun stuff. My kids ask every week if we can go out to eat, and the best I can manage is going to McDonald's and getting a couple of value meals which we then split between us. They don't ever complain, but I want to be able to do more for them.
A couple of people have suggested that I go back to school. I am not opposed to the idea, I just don't have the money or time for that right now. I know a lot of places like WaldenU.edu have great online programs. I can't imagine finding the time to actually attend regular classes at a college nearby, so looking into Walden University's online degree programs is something I am seriously considering. I am not sure exactly what I want to study, but there was a time when teaching was something I seriously thought about. I would want to work with little kids, maybe kindergarten or first grade.
If you want to take classes online, you can learn about Walden by clicking the link.
A couple of people have suggested that I go back to school. I am not opposed to the idea, I just don't have the money or time for that right now. I know a lot of places like WaldenU.edu have great online programs. I can't imagine finding the time to actually attend regular classes at a college nearby, so looking into Walden University's online degree programs is something I am seriously considering. I am not sure exactly what I want to study, but there was a time when teaching was something I seriously thought about. I would want to work with little kids, maybe kindergarten or first grade.
If you want to take classes online, you can learn about Walden by clicking the link.
Thursday, October 27, 2011
A Note To You
Dear Stalker,
Yes, I know you have been reading my blog. They have this pretty nifty thing that lets me see who is reading my blog, so I know how often you "check in" with what is going on with my life. It's pathetic, really, that you are so insecure and unhappy in your own life that you need to keep up with every detail of mine.
Now that I have your attention, let me say a few things that have been bugging me for a while now, but I haven't said because I felt like I had to censor myself here. Because you are reading this. But not anymore. I woke up this morning and realized that any blog worth reading should be written honestly, and I haven't been honest about what has been going on in my life since my husband left. I didn't think it was any of your business, but now I don't care. If you can't make it through the day without stalking my blog, I figure you're looking for the good stuff.
Well, here it is.
Trust is a big thing. A huge thing. No relationship will last without it. I don't know how you can trust a man who walked out on his family without looking back. Sure, you won. But what did you win? A man who walks away instead of dealing with what is bothering him? Good for you. And let me tell you, once a cheater, always a cheater. He cheated on his first wife, too, which I only found out recently. Good luck keeping him from doing the same to you.
Stop telling my kids they are fat. You have no room to talk. I know, neither do I, but I am not damaging a child's self esteem by constantly making him/her measure out their food and not allowing them to snack. Yes, I know all about that. My kids tell me everything.
My ex is a good dad. We are friends now, and it's not my fault that you can not have that same relationship with yours. That does not mean I want him back...it means I want him in my kids lives. I know this bothers you. My kids can tell. And remember, they tell me everything. Just remember the next time you complain about how your ex never spends time alone with his kids that you prevent my ex from doing that with his kids. You may be a "package deal", but there are times when my kids want to spend time with their dad without you. Deal with it. It doesn't mean they don't like you, it just means they miss their dad. They went from seeing him all day, every day, to seeing him every other weekend. That is not enough for them. If you don't like that, tough.
Don't tell my kids that you are the only reason I get child support. In fact, don't tell my kids anything. I know you know they are going to come home and tell me, so have the decency to tell me this crap yourself. I'm a big girl, I can handle it.
Oh, and here's the juicy stuff...I'm dating. I have moved on. My ex is my ex for a reason, and while you were a big part of that reason, I do not want him back. I am happy with my life the way it is. I am an independent single mom, doing a great job raising my kids. You should try doing the same.
Sincerely, Jenn
aka the bitch
P.S. I am not your friend. I only tolerate you for the sake of my kids.
Yes, I know you have been reading my blog. They have this pretty nifty thing that lets me see who is reading my blog, so I know how often you "check in" with what is going on with my life. It's pathetic, really, that you are so insecure and unhappy in your own life that you need to keep up with every detail of mine.
Now that I have your attention, let me say a few things that have been bugging me for a while now, but I haven't said because I felt like I had to censor myself here. Because you are reading this. But not anymore. I woke up this morning and realized that any blog worth reading should be written honestly, and I haven't been honest about what has been going on in my life since my husband left. I didn't think it was any of your business, but now I don't care. If you can't make it through the day without stalking my blog, I figure you're looking for the good stuff.
Well, here it is.
Trust is a big thing. A huge thing. No relationship will last without it. I don't know how you can trust a man who walked out on his family without looking back. Sure, you won. But what did you win? A man who walks away instead of dealing with what is bothering him? Good for you. And let me tell you, once a cheater, always a cheater. He cheated on his first wife, too, which I only found out recently. Good luck keeping him from doing the same to you.
Stop telling my kids they are fat. You have no room to talk. I know, neither do I, but I am not damaging a child's self esteem by constantly making him/her measure out their food and not allowing them to snack. Yes, I know all about that. My kids tell me everything.
My ex is a good dad. We are friends now, and it's not my fault that you can not have that same relationship with yours. That does not mean I want him back...it means I want him in my kids lives. I know this bothers you. My kids can tell. And remember, they tell me everything. Just remember the next time you complain about how your ex never spends time alone with his kids that you prevent my ex from doing that with his kids. You may be a "package deal", but there are times when my kids want to spend time with their dad without you. Deal with it. It doesn't mean they don't like you, it just means they miss their dad. They went from seeing him all day, every day, to seeing him every other weekend. That is not enough for them. If you don't like that, tough.
Don't tell my kids that you are the only reason I get child support. In fact, don't tell my kids anything. I know you know they are going to come home and tell me, so have the decency to tell me this crap yourself. I'm a big girl, I can handle it.
Oh, and here's the juicy stuff...I'm dating. I have moved on. My ex is my ex for a reason, and while you were a big part of that reason, I do not want him back. I am happy with my life the way it is. I am an independent single mom, doing a great job raising my kids. You should try doing the same.
Sincerely, Jenn
aka the bitch
P.S. I am not your friend. I only tolerate you for the sake of my kids.
Babies On The Brain
My new favorite show is Private Practice. Once I watched every episode of Grey's Anatomy on Netflix, I needed something new to watch, and since Addison is the star of Private Practice, it seemed like a good idea. Since she is a baby doctor working in an office that also deals with fertility issues, there are a lot of pregnant women and babies on the show. Seeing all those newborns make me want another baby in the house. The only problem with that is that I do not want to have another baby. I don't want to ever be pregnant again. I don't want to have to worry about stocking up on baby products. Plus, I have nowhere to put a baby in this apartment.
I wouldn't be opposed to babysitting a baby every now and then if someone wanted to lend me one. I would love to keep one for a couple of days, just long enough to remind myself why I don't want a baby of my own. As much as I love the smell of a baby, and as much as I enjoy the feel of a baby sleeping in my arms, I know what happens when they grow up. They turn into monsters with attitudes that talk back and don't listen.
Okay, so maybe I just talked myself out of the baby thing.
I wouldn't be opposed to babysitting a baby every now and then if someone wanted to lend me one. I would love to keep one for a couple of days, just long enough to remind myself why I don't want a baby of my own. As much as I love the smell of a baby, and as much as I enjoy the feel of a baby sleeping in my arms, I know what happens when they grow up. They turn into monsters with attitudes that talk back and don't listen.
Okay, so maybe I just talked myself out of the baby thing.
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
It's Almost Time
I can not tell you how excited I am that it is almost time to decorate my house for Christmas. If you have read this blog for any amount of time, you know that at the Holidays, I tend to go overboard. This year, since it is the first Christmas it will be just the kids and I, I want to do it up big. I was in the dollar store the other day and I found the cutest Christmas Tree magnet set to put on my car. It has several pieces, and trust me, when I put it on my car I will take a picture to show you how adorable it looks.
I am also searching for more decorations for my house, because while I do have a bunch, I kind of want to avoid using the stuff that will remind the kids of their dad. I want this to be a special time for them, not a stressful one. I found these Christmas Designs that you can put on the wall of your home, and I fell in love with these red balls.
I have the perfect place for them to go, too. I also want to find some of those decorations that go on your door jams. Do you know what I am talking about? This is the first place I have lived where I would be able to use something like that.
What special decorations do you have for your home?
I am also searching for more decorations for my house, because while I do have a bunch, I kind of want to avoid using the stuff that will remind the kids of their dad. I want this to be a special time for them, not a stressful one. I found these Christmas Designs that you can put on the wall of your home, and I fell in love with these red balls.
I have the perfect place for them to go, too. I also want to find some of those decorations that go on your door jams. Do you know what I am talking about? This is the first place I have lived where I would be able to use something like that.
What special decorations do you have for your home?
Car Repairs
A friend of mine called me today with car issues. She took her car in for an oil change and now it's not running at all. My ex looked at it, and says the motor is locked up. Of course, it had to be something the mechanic did, and of course they claim they did nothing wrong. The thing is, the car was running when they pulled it into the shop, and after they were done, it wouldn't even crank. I went up there to see what was going on and offer whatever support I could, and eventually the mechanic pulled it back into the shop to check it out.
In my opinion, they should have to fix it free of charge since they obviously did something wrong. They said they couldn't fix it until tomorrow, which leaves my friend without a vehicle. Plus, they said they aren't going to do anything if they decide it's not their fault. My poor friend is going to have to find a discount car rental place so she can at least get her daughter back and forth to school. I know first hand how hard is it to be without a running vehicle, so I can sympathize with her.
In my opinion, they should have to fix it free of charge since they obviously did something wrong. They said they couldn't fix it until tomorrow, which leaves my friend without a vehicle. Plus, they said they aren't going to do anything if they decide it's not their fault. My poor friend is going to have to find a discount car rental place so she can at least get her daughter back and forth to school. I know first hand how hard is it to be without a running vehicle, so I can sympathize with her.
Saturday, October 22, 2011
Excel
Brandi is in the gifted program at her school. It's called Excel. The district she was in last year before we moved had a similar program, and they met once a week for two and a half hours. At her new school, she goes every day for about an hour. She loves it! I know she is my kid and I might be a little partial to her, but she is super smart, and gets bored in her regular classes if she isn't being challenged. I went to an orientation when school started about the Excel program, and I was impressed with what the teachers have planned for the kids this year.
As usual, the teachers asked us, the parents, to help keep their classroom supply of teaching tools stocked. Now, I am all about making sure my kid has what she needs to do well in school, but I don't have the money to be shelling out for community supplies. Now, I know that sounds bad, because I know my kid does use the supplies that other parents send in. My point is, I think each parent should be responsible for what their own kids use.
That's how it was when I was in school, and it worked just fine for me.
As usual, the teachers asked us, the parents, to help keep their classroom supply of teaching tools stocked. Now, I am all about making sure my kid has what she needs to do well in school, but I don't have the money to be shelling out for community supplies. Now, I know that sounds bad, because I know my kid does use the supplies that other parents send in. My point is, I think each parent should be responsible for what their own kids use.
That's how it was when I was in school, and it worked just fine for me.
I Need A Vacation!
Thursday and yesterday were pretty busy at work. These days are pretty rare. Most days, I get to come home for an hour or two for lunch, but on busy days, I'm lucky if I can find the time to sneak through a drive through to get something to eat. I like the busy days, though, because the day goes by quickly.
I haven't called in sick once since I started this job, even when I am sick I go to work. For the past few weeks, I have been feeling a little burned out. I would love to be able to pack up the kids for a few days, or a week, and just take off somewhere and not have to use my brain at all. The problem with this is that I don't have any money. I would need someone to donate timeshares to me so I could get a little "me" time. I would pack a few books and my mp3, and forget about the rest of the world for a while.
Of course, reality often sets in, and I realize that my vacation will consist of me enjoying the quiet weekends I have to myself when the kids are with their dad.
I haven't called in sick once since I started this job, even when I am sick I go to work. For the past few weeks, I have been feeling a little burned out. I would love to be able to pack up the kids for a few days, or a week, and just take off somewhere and not have to use my brain at all. The problem with this is that I don't have any money. I would need someone to donate timeshares to me so I could get a little "me" time. I would pack a few books and my mp3, and forget about the rest of the world for a while.
Of course, reality often sets in, and I realize that my vacation will consist of me enjoying the quiet weekends I have to myself when the kids are with their dad.
Saturday, October 15, 2011
Hey Santa!
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This is the first year that none of my kids believe in Santa. A few months ago, Brandi found the box I keep the kids teeth in, which led to a discussion about the Tooth Fairy, which led to a discussion about the Easter Bunny and Santa Claus. Honestly, Brandi was more mad that I have been lying to her than she was about there being no Santa. So this year, I want to make things extra special. It will also be the first year it will be just the kids and I, so that adds to the pressure of having a perfect Christmas even greater.
I heard about this thing that the Hilton Promenade at Branson Landing , which is located across the street from the Hilton Branson Convention Center Hotel, is doing for the holidays, and I wish Brandi still believed, because this would have been the perfect thing for us to do. They have a Santa Claus package which features deluxe accommodations for a family of four (two adults and two children) and breakfast with Santa at the Level 2 restaurant with a special gift for the children. I am sure at 16 Ryan could qualify as an adult, and the girls would obviously be the kids. At $228 a night, it could be affordable if I didn't buy them anything else for Christmas.
If you are looking for something special to do for your kids this Holiday season, thing about Branson. Taking a trip could add a little magic to your holiday.
Friday, October 14, 2011
Neighbors
I have the best neighbors. I have never before lived in a place where I feel comfortable leaving Brandi home, running the neighborhood, with my neighbor agreeing to keep an eye on her. I do the same thing for her daughter, too. A couple of weeks ago, I was sitting outside after a particularly bad day, and she came upstairs with wine coolers, and we sat, drank, and talked for a while. She's pretty awesome.
Last night, I was outside smoking, and she came upstairs with a bunch of free movie codes for me to use at one of those boxes outside of the grocery store. She said her and her husband rent a different movie every night because like us, they don't have cable. I love movies, so this was great. My problem with movies, though, is that I like to buy them so I can watch them over and over again. Because quite honestly, most times you can buy the movie cheaper than if you went to see it in the theater. The last time I went to the movies, I took Ryan, Kasi, and one of Kasi's friends and spent almost $90 by the time we bought popcorn, drinks and tickets. You can find all kinds of cheap bluray movies and DVD's online if you know where to look. You can also buy microwave popcorn for way cheaper than at the theater, and honestly, it tastes a lot fresher, too. Movie popcorn always tastes kind of stale to me.
So give me a movie, my couch, a diet pepsi, and a bag of microwave popcorn over a trip to the theater any day. Plus, when watching a movie at home, you can pause it for potty breaks. And if you know me at all, you know I need lots of potty breaks.
Last night, I was outside smoking, and she came upstairs with a bunch of free movie codes for me to use at one of those boxes outside of the grocery store. She said her and her husband rent a different movie every night because like us, they don't have cable. I love movies, so this was great. My problem with movies, though, is that I like to buy them so I can watch them over and over again. Because quite honestly, most times you can buy the movie cheaper than if you went to see it in the theater. The last time I went to the movies, I took Ryan, Kasi, and one of Kasi's friends and spent almost $90 by the time we bought popcorn, drinks and tickets. You can find all kinds of cheap bluray movies and DVD's online if you know where to look. You can also buy microwave popcorn for way cheaper than at the theater, and honestly, it tastes a lot fresher, too. Movie popcorn always tastes kind of stale to me.
So give me a movie, my couch, a diet pepsi, and a bag of microwave popcorn over a trip to the theater any day. Plus, when watching a movie at home, you can pause it for potty breaks. And if you know me at all, you know I need lots of potty breaks.
Me + 3 KIds = Too Much Laundry!
I am trying to figure out how four people can make so much laundry! I spend most of my life doing one or more of the following things: washing clothes, drying clothes, folding clothes, hanging clothes up, and putting clothes away. It's a never ending cycle. I know part of it is my fault, because I don't believe in wearing clothes or using towels more than once. You don't have to yell at me. I know that jeans and towels can be used more than once before being washed, but it's one of my "things". When I put something on, I want it to be fresh. When I dry my body, I don't want to think about the last body part I dried the time before.
I probably wouldn't spend so much time doing laundry if I had a newer washer and dryer. My washer is pretty standard, and can do a super sized load, but my dryer is a piece of garbage. I have to run it twice to dry one load of laundry, which in turn hikes up my power bill. I'm thinking that when February comes around and I have some money I should invest in a new washer and dryer. My mom has the front loaders, and she loves them. I may not get that fancy, but I have to do something.
I probably wouldn't spend so much time doing laundry if I had a newer washer and dryer. My washer is pretty standard, and can do a super sized load, but my dryer is a piece of garbage. I have to run it twice to dry one load of laundry, which in turn hikes up my power bill. I'm thinking that when February comes around and I have some money I should invest in a new washer and dryer. My mom has the front loaders, and she loves them. I may not get that fancy, but I have to do something.
Saturday, October 8, 2011
Halloween Smiley Cookies
I love cookies. My kids love cookies. When I was asked to review these adorable Halloween Cookies, I was thrilled. Not only are they adorable to look at, but they are so yummy!
I love the little candy corn eyes and nose, though if I am going to be honest, I have to admit that I picked them off the cookie I ate and gave them to my daughter. She enjoyed her cookie, too. Check out her face:
She is actually smiling around the cookie! I posted this picture on the Smiley Cookie facebook page. You should go "like" the page so you can see her beautiful face over there. Also, if you do like it, you can get
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Keep in mind that they have more than just Halloween cookies. They have plain Smiley cookies as well as cookies for lots of other holidays. In my opinion, every day is better when it includes eating a cookie.
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20% off on any of their Halloween Cookie Gifts and Halloween Gift Baskets. I am thinking about ordering one of their Halloween Party Snacks for Ryan's party in a couple of weeks. These mini cookies would be perfect for the kids to snack on.
Keep in mind that they have more than just Halloween cookies. They have plain Smiley cookies as well as cookies for lots of other holidays. In my opinion, every day is better when it includes eating a cookie.
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New Clothes
The time has almost come to break out my warmer winter clothes and pack away the shorts and flip flops. This makes me kind of sad, because I love my flip flops and sandals. I hate the thought of putting on socks and sneakers every day. On the plus side, though, I will no longer have to shave my legs every day. Now that my husband is gone, I can go weeks without shaving now if I want to. I mean, who is going to be seeing my legs anyway if I have jeans on all the time?
At the end of Winter last year I bought some new plus size womens clothing that were on clearance for one dollar each. I bought a size smaller than I was wearing then, hoping I would lose enough weight before this Winter began to fit into them. Last week, I tried them on, and they all fit perfectly. I was so excited! I still need to get a few pairs of jeans, and I'm hoping I'll be a size smaller in the waist, too. I was a little worried they wouldn't fit, because my weight has been holding steady for a few months now. But when I think about it, I am about 60 pounds lighter now than I was last winter.
If I could just lose these last 50 or so pounds that are still hanging around...
At the end of Winter last year I bought some new plus size womens clothing that were on clearance for one dollar each. I bought a size smaller than I was wearing then, hoping I would lose enough weight before this Winter began to fit into them. Last week, I tried them on, and they all fit perfectly. I was so excited! I still need to get a few pairs of jeans, and I'm hoping I'll be a size smaller in the waist, too. I was a little worried they wouldn't fit, because my weight has been holding steady for a few months now. But when I think about it, I am about 60 pounds lighter now than I was last winter.
If I could just lose these last 50 or so pounds that are still hanging around...
Disney
I grew up in New York. I don't remember us ever doing without anything, but I do know we weren't rich by any means. There were five of us kids, and while we may have worn hand me downs, they were always clean and in good condition. One of the only things that really sticks in my mind that we never did was take a trip to Disney.
I remember every December the talk would start. The kids that were doing Disney over Christmas vacation would start talking about all the things they would do while they walked the Magic Kingdom. It made those of us not going a little jealous, but that's life. I did finally end up going when I was in my early twenties, and I think I enjoyed it more then than I ever would have as a kid. Sure, back then it would have been magical and fun, but as an adult, I was able to appreciate the beauty of it, if that makes any kind of sense. My favorite was the haunted house, though I don't remember the "real" name. I was blown away by the reality of the ghosts. It was awesome.
I hope one day I can take my kids to Disney. I wouldn't have to stay at a Disney hotel Orlando because I actually have family close to Disney that I could stay with. My kids are old enough now, I think, to enjoy it more. Now to just find the money to get there.
I remember every December the talk would start. The kids that were doing Disney over Christmas vacation would start talking about all the things they would do while they walked the Magic Kingdom. It made those of us not going a little jealous, but that's life. I did finally end up going when I was in my early twenties, and I think I enjoyed it more then than I ever would have as a kid. Sure, back then it would have been magical and fun, but as an adult, I was able to appreciate the beauty of it, if that makes any kind of sense. My favorite was the haunted house, though I don't remember the "real" name. I was blown away by the reality of the ghosts. It was awesome.
I hope one day I can take my kids to Disney. I wouldn't have to stay at a Disney hotel Orlando because I actually have family close to Disney that I could stay with. My kids are old enough now, I think, to enjoy it more. Now to just find the money to get there.
Shopping Virtual Malls
I am fairly new to online shopping. I am not a fan of shopping in general, because crowded stores kind of freak me out. I am not one of those people who feels the need to have the latest and best of everything. I refuse to stand in line just to have the latest phone or whatever. I would much rather sit at home with my computer and shop online. I can ever do it in my pajamas!
There are so many virtual stores to shop in, and people are opening their own stores every day. In fact, you can visit a Virtual Mall and find just about everything you need. You could even open your own store in less than twenty minutes, with very little start up costs. I am going to try really hard to give only handmade gifts this year for Christmas, and those that I can not make myself, I am going to buy online. I would much rather give my money to an individual than a big store.
Last year, I did the majority of my Christmas shopping online, and this year I hope to do the same. I have no time these days to do much of anything, and being able to have the gifts I buy online delivered to my home would be such a time saver. Plus, I can shop whenever I want, even at two o'clock in the morning. I know a lot of other people feel the way I do, and it makes me wonder what the future holds. I mean, if we can eventually find everything we need online, who is going to shop in "regular" stores? The only thing I don't buy online is clothes, but that is because I have a hard time finding clothes that fit me properly and I like to try things on.
What are the things you do or don't buy online? Why?
There are so many virtual stores to shop in, and people are opening their own stores every day. In fact, you can visit a Virtual Mall and find just about everything you need. You could even open your own store in less than twenty minutes, with very little start up costs. I am going to try really hard to give only handmade gifts this year for Christmas, and those that I can not make myself, I am going to buy online. I would much rather give my money to an individual than a big store.
Last year, I did the majority of my Christmas shopping online, and this year I hope to do the same. I have no time these days to do much of anything, and being able to have the gifts I buy online delivered to my home would be such a time saver. Plus, I can shop whenever I want, even at two o'clock in the morning. I know a lot of other people feel the way I do, and it makes me wonder what the future holds. I mean, if we can eventually find everything we need online, who is going to shop in "regular" stores? The only thing I don't buy online is clothes, but that is because I have a hard time finding clothes that fit me properly and I like to try things on.
What are the things you do or don't buy online? Why?
Are You A Cat Or A Dog Person?
This is a Sponsored post written by me on behalf of Hills Pet Nutrition for SocialSpark. All opinions are 100% mine.
Brandi has always been afraid of dogs, thanks to an incident that happened when she was about two years old. A family member who knew she was afraid told a dog to "get her", and the dog charged after her. Because of this, we have not been able to have a dog.
A couple of months ago, we had new neighbors move in downstairs. They have a dog. The first time Brandi saw it, she freaked out. The owner, who is awesome, told Brandi that she would never have the dog off it's leash, and whenever she was ready, she could try and pet him. After a few days of hesitation, Brandi finally pet him, and now she can't get enough of him. My neighbor is thinking of breeding him, and I told her we would love to have one of his puppies.
If you are a dog owner, you should check out Hill's Pet Nutrition on Facebook. They have the cutest pictures on their wall of pet lovers and their babies. Right now, they have a picture of the most beautiful grayish black cat with long hair. I would love to have that cat for myself. (and yes, I am going to be a crazy cat lady someday!) We all want our pets to be healthy, and right now, you can sign up for Hill’s Healthy Mobility Challenge and sign up for a Hill's Healthy Mobility Coupon. By signing up, you are entered into their sweepstakes where they are giving away free pet food for a year to 30 lucky winners. You should also check out the information about Hill's Pet Nutrition. You can read articles about how important the proper nutrition is for your pet, and how that can help your pet live a longer, healthier life.
Friday, October 7, 2011
I Love Reading
I am a big reader. There is hardly ever a time when I am not in the middle of something. Right now, I am reading Lisey's Story by Stephen King. I've had in it on my bookshelf for years, but I just started reading it a few weeks ago. I keep it in the van and when I stop for breaks or when I am waiting to be loaded or unloaded, I read. I have an ereader, but I don't ever use it. For me, I love the feeling of holding a book in my hand and turning the pages.
That's not to say that I haven't looked into books read online. In fact, I read that Twilight book from Edward's point of view online. My problem was that after a while, my eyes started crossing from staring at the computer screen. That doesn't happen when I read a real book. I don't know why.
There are several books out there right now that I can not wait to get my hands on. I need the latest edition of Dean Koontz's Frankenstein series, but I don't have the money to buy it right now. So, if you are reading this and want to buy me a present, hint hint.
That's not to say that I haven't looked into books read online. In fact, I read that Twilight book from Edward's point of view online. My problem was that after a while, my eyes started crossing from staring at the computer screen. That doesn't happen when I read a real book. I don't know why.
There are several books out there right now that I can not wait to get my hands on. I need the latest edition of Dean Koontz's Frankenstein series, but I don't have the money to buy it right now. So, if you are reading this and want to buy me a present, hint hint.
Oh, My Aching Back!
Work was crazy this week. There was one day when I thought I was going to lose my mind. My GPS was being difficult and taking me to places I wasn't supposed to be instead of where I was supposed to pick up and deliver things. My boss knew I was getting frustrated, so there was a little extra bonus on my paycheck this morning. It wasn't much, but it was enough for me to get breakfast and lunch today, which was a real treat for me, considering money has been so tight lately I haven't been able to eat at all unless I came home during the day.
Sitting in the van all day is taking it's toll on me, too. There are days I come home and my back is killing me. All I want to do is sit on the couch and watch Grey's Anatomy, which is my newest obsession on Netflix. I don't know why I haven't been watching this show all along. It's awesome. I'm on episode 100, and Izzy is just getting sick.
Anyway, I have been thinking about ways to help my back, and searching online for lower back pain treatment. I used to have back pain every day before my breast reduction, and it's been so nice not having to deal with that for the past few years. I'm hoping this weekend I can just relax, and maybe I'll feel better by Monday, when it will start all over again.
Sitting in the van all day is taking it's toll on me, too. There are days I come home and my back is killing me. All I want to do is sit on the couch and watch Grey's Anatomy, which is my newest obsession on Netflix. I don't know why I haven't been watching this show all along. It's awesome. I'm on episode 100, and Izzy is just getting sick.
Anyway, I have been thinking about ways to help my back, and searching online for lower back pain treatment. I used to have back pain every day before my breast reduction, and it's been so nice not having to deal with that for the past few years. I'm hoping this weekend I can just relax, and maybe I'll feel better by Monday, when it will start all over again.
Tuesday, October 4, 2011
Time To Buy My Monthly Card
This is a Sponsored post written by me on behalf of Straight Talk for SocialSpark. All opinions are 100% mine.
Every month I make a trip to Walmart to get a refill card for my phone. I spend $45 and that gets me 30 days of unlimited talk, text, and web. That's right. I said $45 for 30 days of unlimited talk, text, and web. I don't have contract with anyone, and I don't get bills in the mail. Simply put, I have never been surprised by overage charges causing huge phone bills. I pay the same amount every month, and I could not be happier.
What I have is a Straight Talk phone. My phone has everything I need, Hook, line and sinker. I can text my day (which is something I do a lot of here lately) or simply Call a friend, and never have to worry about using up minutes. The phone I have is pretty basic, though it does take pictures which I can email, text to someone, or even post straight to Facebook. I do that a lot, too. I plan on upgrading my phone eventually. I am thinking about the Android on Straight Talk, but I'll have to see what my options are when I find the money to actually do it.
Straight Talk offers other monthly plans, where you can pay for minutes. It all depends on what your specific needs are. Since I use my phone as my work phone as well, the unlimited works for me. Plus. my boss now pays part of the cost of my refill cards, which saves me even more money every month.
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Sunday, October 2, 2011
Top Droppers ~ September
Thanks to all who visit and drop every day!
~ A blog about soap, bath and body, and everything handmade mixed in with my personal ramblings.
~ Researches about Computer Graphics.
New free software for graphics.
Hot free graphic effects.
~ A resource site for non traditional students. History Major information and site reviews.
~ A mom of grown children who talks about everyday things such as quilting, books, movies, travel and owning a small business.
~ Seek No More is an online community whose main purpose is to provide a
place where both experts and newbies can learn, interact and discuss
business, career and entrepreneurial opportunities.
~ The hunt for Anime is on !!! Anime Hunt is a collections of Japan
Animation review from old Anime (Japanese Animation) to the newest one
~ Personal and Professional Development Center for Money Success.
~ A personal blog about anything and everything, fun, humour, randomness and rants.
~ Antics of two cats and a dog! Plus, we make jewelry for animal lovers
with proceeds benefiting animal charities! We're making tails wag one
bead at a time!
~ Photography by KML features the fine art and stock images of
photographer, Kathy Libby. KML specializes in Landscape and Nature
photos. The stock photos include concepts, food, backgrounds, abstracts,
sports, architecture, transportation, and people.
Parental Support
This is a Sponsored post written by me on behalf of UPromise for SocialSpark. All opinions are 100% mine.
As a parent, my kids are the most important people in my world. I would do anything for them. It still amazes me how much I love them. I mean, I never knew how it felt to KNOW that I would die for someone, but I would. In a second. For any and all of them. I would also do anything and everything in my power to help them become whoever they are meant to be.
My parents have always been supportive of me and the decisions I have made in my life, but honestly, I have never needed them more than I have these past few months. When my husband left me, I didn't have a job, or a drivers license, or any clue as to how I was going to support myself, let alone my kids. But with their help, I am standing on my own two feet, making it on my own. I know I wouldn't be here, right now, without them.
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What Do You Think?
This is a Sponsored post written by me on behalf of Untitled Jersey City Project for SocialSpark. All opinions are 100% mine.
I love television. The kids do, too. I am always willing to give a new show a try, and when I heard about the Untitled Jersey City Project I was really curious as to what it was all about. I watched the following video, and honestly, I am a little confused. What do you think?
The premise of this show is a bit of a mystery to me, with each episode being a little piece of a bigger story. From their website I learned that "the story is set amidst the fast-developing Jersey City waterfront, just across the river from Manhattan. A shining new city is being built on the edge of this gritty town. But while the glass office towers and condos are sleek and new, the rules of the game haven’t changed one bit". Sounds good, right? I love a good drama, and I am interested to see future episodes.
The characters in the episode I watched seemed to have good chemistry, which to me is important. I hate shows with bad actors, where every line seems forced. The show airs on FX, so I won't be ale to watch it. I'm hoping they will post the episodes online as well, so I don't have to miss out.
Saturday, October 1, 2011
Cooking
I love food. I love eating it and preparing it, especially when I do it with the kids. It's fun to teach them things and then see them do them on their own. Of course, there are still tons of things that I, myself, do not know how to do. When we had cable, I used to watch the food channels all the time. I loved watching the chefs take the simplest of ingredients and make a beautiful meal out of them.
We eat a lot of chicken in my house, not only because it is good for us, but because we all love it. I have a couple of different ways I prepare it, and the kids favorites are my Parmesan crusted chicken fillets and my barbecue chicken with pineapples. Both are pretty simple to make, and don't take very long to cook.
On the weekends, I like to put a little effort into what I make, and I am always looking online for Free Recipes. Presentation wise, my food never comes out looking like the pictures, but it tastes good, most of the time. Ryan has shown an interest in cooking, and during the summer, he used to cook lunch for the girls every day. Some days it was mac and cheese with peas and tuna (a personal favorite of theirs) and other days it was burgers and fries. If he wasn't so set on becoming a mechanic when he graduates from college I would definitely suggest culinary school to him.
For now, though, I'll stick to trying new recipes while he checks the oil in my car. That is, if I remember to ask him to.
We eat a lot of chicken in my house, not only because it is good for us, but because we all love it. I have a couple of different ways I prepare it, and the kids favorites are my Parmesan crusted chicken fillets and my barbecue chicken with pineapples. Both are pretty simple to make, and don't take very long to cook.
On the weekends, I like to put a little effort into what I make, and I am always looking online for Free Recipes. Presentation wise, my food never comes out looking like the pictures, but it tastes good, most of the time. Ryan has shown an interest in cooking, and during the summer, he used to cook lunch for the girls every day. Some days it was mac and cheese with peas and tuna (a personal favorite of theirs) and other days it was burgers and fries. If he wasn't so set on becoming a mechanic when he graduates from college I would definitely suggest culinary school to him.
For now, though, I'll stick to trying new recipes while he checks the oil in my car. That is, if I remember to ask him to.
Making It Special
Today is October first. That means Christmas is less than three months away. It also means that three months from today we will welcome in 2012. Where has this year gone? For me, personally, 2011 has been a year of many firsts. I don't want to get into all of that again, but my loyal readers know all about it. I am looking forward to what 2012 will bring. My 40th birthday and my divorce. What an awesome present to give to myself, right?
But first, I must find a way to get through Christmas. Other than an xbox, the kids really haven't asked for anything specific. They are too old for toys, though I'm pretty sure Santa will bring the game Sorry. We used to have it, and it was my favorite game to play with Brandi. But, during the move, the cards that went with it were lost, and there was really no way to play without them, so we threw the game away.
I am thinking about getting both of my girls some personalized stationery. I know most of you are thinking that with facebook and email, who even writes letters anymore. I think that hand written letters of thanks and even just little notes to let someone know you are thinking about them are awesome, and I want to teach my girls that. Growing up, I used to have several pen pals. I remember going with my grandparents to Christian retreat and making some wonderful friends. I kept in touch with several of them for years simply by writing letters back and forth with them.
I am open to any other ideas for unique gifts, so if you have any, please share. I want to make this first Christmas of it being just the four of us at home a special one, with special gifts.
But first, I must find a way to get through Christmas. Other than an xbox, the kids really haven't asked for anything specific. They are too old for toys, though I'm pretty sure Santa will bring the game Sorry. We used to have it, and it was my favorite game to play with Brandi. But, during the move, the cards that went with it were lost, and there was really no way to play without them, so we threw the game away.
I am thinking about getting both of my girls some personalized stationery. I know most of you are thinking that with facebook and email, who even writes letters anymore. I think that hand written letters of thanks and even just little notes to let someone know you are thinking about them are awesome, and I want to teach my girls that. Growing up, I used to have several pen pals. I remember going with my grandparents to Christian retreat and making some wonderful friends. I kept in touch with several of them for years simply by writing letters back and forth with them.
I am open to any other ideas for unique gifts, so if you have any, please share. I want to make this first Christmas of it being just the four of us at home a special one, with special gifts.
Name Labels
I spend a small fortune on school supplies every year. I always assumed that what I sent to school with them would be used by them. I found out last year that this is not the case with certain things. Take pencils, for instance. Last year, Brandi wanted Wizards Of Waverly Place pencils, and even though they were more expensive than the "regular" yellow No. 2 pencils, I bought them for her. She was so excited to bring them to school the first day.
Well, imagine how disappointed she was when she got there and discovered that she had to put her pencils in a bin with all the other kids pencils, and that they would be shared by everyone. Now, I was a little ticked off by this, too, simply because had I known they were doing this, I would have bought the generic, 24 for a dollar pencils.
This year, since she is in a higher grade and the kids change classes, she doesn't have to share her supplies. Her obsession this year is Victorious, and she went to school the first day with Victorious backpack, notebooks, folders, and all kinds of other things. We couldn't find Victorious pencils, but she did want mechanical ones this year, so her Daddy bought her s couple. I wanted to find a way to put her name on them, and came across kids labels that are made specifically for pencils. I designed hers in a bright pink, and hopefully I'll have enough extra cash soon to actually buy them. This is what they will look like:
I will ad our last name before completing the order, that way she is sure to get them back if she looses any. You can also buy labels to go one water bottles and clothing, as well as shoes and notebooks. I may order some different kinds to stick in her stocking for Christmas. Who knows what she'd end up labeling as her own!
Well, imagine how disappointed she was when she got there and discovered that she had to put her pencils in a bin with all the other kids pencils, and that they would be shared by everyone. Now, I was a little ticked off by this, too, simply because had I known they were doing this, I would have bought the generic, 24 for a dollar pencils.
This year, since she is in a higher grade and the kids change classes, she doesn't have to share her supplies. Her obsession this year is Victorious, and she went to school the first day with Victorious backpack, notebooks, folders, and all kinds of other things. We couldn't find Victorious pencils, but she did want mechanical ones this year, so her Daddy bought her s couple. I wanted to find a way to put her name on them, and came across kids labels that are made specifically for pencils. I designed hers in a bright pink, and hopefully I'll have enough extra cash soon to actually buy them. This is what they will look like:
Pearls
I was married for fifteen years. (technically I am still married, but that will change soon enough) In those fifteen years, the only piece of "real" jewelry my husband ever gave me, besides my wedding ring set, was a pair of pearl earrings. They were a Christmas gift one year, and I remember opening them, thinking I would never have anywhere to wear them. Several weeks later, I put them in to go somewhere, and never took the out. They were beautiful, and I loved wearing them. Then one day at work, one fell out somewhere. I worked fast food, and my boss was worried it had made it's way into someone's burger. It was actually pretty funny watching her freak out a little. But, there was never a complaint, so we all assumed it fell out and was swept up with the crumb on the floor.
Those weren't my first pearls, though. When I was about 18 or so, a very good friend of mine got married. She asked me to be one of her bridesmaids, and as a gift to each of us, she bought pearl necklaces for us to wear on her special day. I still have those pearls, too. Kasi is actually going to wear them when she has a chorus concert, as each girl is required to wear a pearl necklace.
I think pearl pendants and pearl bracelets make excellent gifts. As I just said, both of my memories of pearls were started by someone giving them to me as gifts. I want to be the one to give both of my daughters their first pearls, so I did a little research, and found several pearl jewelry sets. As soon as I found these pink pearls, I thought of Brandi. Aren't they beautiful?
Of course, she is a little young for them right now, but when she gets a little older, I hope to be able to get them for her.
Those weren't my first pearls, though. When I was about 18 or so, a very good friend of mine got married. She asked me to be one of her bridesmaids, and as a gift to each of us, she bought pearl necklaces for us to wear on her special day. I still have those pearls, too. Kasi is actually going to wear them when she has a chorus concert, as each girl is required to wear a pearl necklace.
I think pearl pendants and pearl bracelets make excellent gifts. As I just said, both of my memories of pearls were started by someone giving them to me as gifts. I want to be the one to give both of my daughters their first pearls, so I did a little research, and found several pearl jewelry sets. As soon as I found these pink pearls, I thought of Brandi. Aren't they beautiful?
Of course, she is a little young for them right now, but when she gets a little older, I hope to be able to get them for her.
Hawaii
I have always wanted to visit Hawaii. The one thing holding me back, besides the money factor, is how I would get there. You see, there's not enough money or medication in the world that would get me on an airplane. I have never had the desire to get on an airplane. In fact, the thought of having to fly terrifies me. So, in order for me to get to Hawaii, they would need to build a bridge I could drive over.
Sure, I could probably find a cruise ship that goes from somewhere in the continental US to Hawaii, but I'm not sure how well I would good I would do on a ship in the middle of the ocean. I like boats well enough, as long as there is land within sight. But I have a feeling that as soon as land disappeared, I'd have some sort of panic attack. I would probably end up getting there and then have to check out Hawaii real estate to find somewhere to live permanently, because I would have no way of getting back home.
But, living in place this beautiful would be worth it:
The thought of getting up every morning an putting my feet in the crystal clear water would be a dream come true.
Sure, I could probably find a cruise ship that goes from somewhere in the continental US to Hawaii, but I'm not sure how well I would good I would do on a ship in the middle of the ocean. I like boats well enough, as long as there is land within sight. But I have a feeling that as soon as land disappeared, I'd have some sort of panic attack. I would probably end up getting there and then have to check out Hawaii real estate to find somewhere to live permanently, because I would have no way of getting back home.
But, living in place this beautiful would be worth it:
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